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#2054638 05/09/08 06:26 AM
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I know it was hard for you to post to ILMH.

Humble and grateful thanks.


FWW-28
BH-41(still claiming 34 LOL!)
DS-3
D-DAY 05/08
EA 07/07-10/07
PA 10/07-12/07
MARRIED 08/19/2001
ON OUR WAY TO RECOVERY
ON MY WAY TO BECOMING A BETTER WIFE
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TTH & IMLH,

You are welcome. I have been involved in yours and TTH's situation from the very beginning when he first started posting here and I wanted to be sure to see it through. Don't worry about me. I'm actually doing very well. LaLa and I are getting better everyday. I do believe that the same is possible in your situation. It is going to take a lot of effort on your part. Remember, the road to recovery will be full of highs and lows. What he will need from you is consistent expressions of your love for him to help him overcome his pain. If you see he's down ask him if he needs to talk, tell him how sorry you are, tell him how much you love him. Actions like these can make all the difference in the world. They can help to give him relief from the pain and keep him from dwelling on his emotions. Keep reading and posting here. It will help you further understand and be able to empathize with what TTH is going through. The more you know the better you will be able to help him heal. I wish the two of you the best. Keep the faith.....

p.s. Did you forget to login as TTH?

Want2Stay

Last edited by Want2Stay; 05/09/08 07:11 AM. Reason: TTH is a geek for not logging in as himself........

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FWW-34
DS-7 & DS-3
PA - 7/06-8/06
EA - 6/06-1/07
D-Day: wife confessed 2-17-07, suspected 8-02-06
Broke NC: 2-19-07, 3-24-07, 5/07
My Story
My Wife's Story
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Healing one day at a time.....
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Oops.
Yea that was me...

Thanks again.

TTH


BH(me): 40ish
FWW:(ILMH) 28yo
DS 3yo
Married 7yrs
Together 10 yrs

??? Spring '07 - Adultery Begins
8/25/07 - 1st D-day (week of our anniv.)
8/07 thru 5/08 - About a dozen D-days/Gaslighting/Flaunting/Fake Recoveries

She finally quit on...

1/1/08 - First real NC attempt(Maybe?)
3/1/08 - Told me OM is an A**hole.(Hope?)
5/3/08 - D-day (Admitted to PA once)
5/4/08 - Latest D-day(Finally confessed to multiple EA/PA in our home)
5/8/08 - Present
Struggling to hold on


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