Hi. I'm new to MB. Found out 2 weeks ago that my wife has been lying to me. My age is 49,wife is 47,other person is 62 male.Devorced.

My wife had a great elderly female friend,neighbor, age 82.She helped her alot after her husband died a year ago.The neighbors 62 year old son would stay with his mother when he wasn't working, he lives about 65 miles away.His mother past away this year in January and my wife offered to pick up his mail and visit.My wifes mother lives down he street and see's her twicw aday to check on her.I have noticed that after my wife goes to her mothers the neighbor will leave 15 to 20 minutes later.I can see my wifes mother house from our house and the neighbor will go an pick up my wife and take her to store,post office.My wife will tell me that she was walking to store or post office an neighbor will go by an ask her if she wants aride.Long story short after I questioned her about it my wife told me that she calls him to take her to store or post office without my knowing.After we had a argument,she told me that I don't listen to her and the neighbor does.She goes over to his house when I'm at work,brings his mail and now that he is back to work she looks after his pets, he is now only around on weekends,she is constantly looking out our window over to his place when he is their.

Welcome to MarriageBuilders, 3s...

I don't understand why you're posting over here in Other Topics and not in the Infidelity Forum under General Questions II.

You can copy and paste your post over there...you'll get more help because there's more traffic.

You are experiencing infidelity. Seems to me, you know this. Your WW knows she's having one...have you read Surviving An Affair by Dr. Harley? Do you know what Plan A is?

Please get to the forum that's not out of the way...get the most help for your marriage if you've decided to fight for it.

LA