This doesn't surprise me.

I think that says it all. And good for you for trying to DO something about it, but I just cannot get past the fact that you knew your husband was a PEDOPHILE and yet you stayed. I know I wouldn't be able to live with someone that was a criminal. Maybe that's just me...

Your husband is a PEDIOPHILE is what we are saying...he is a DANGEROUS MAN..a SEXUAL PREDATOR...who has and is taking advantage of a CHILD...

missadia, being a 12 yr old makes this better? My gosh, you had evidence of love letters. Do I need to remind you that you told us in October 2006 that:



Yet your post said nothing about the welfare of this young girl, whether she was 12 or 16, or your H's sexual exploitation of a minor child. Never did you even mention contacting the police, the only thing on your radar was your own "jealousy" over your H's pursuit of a minor child.

I am wondering if your H has sexually molested/exploited other girls in his school?

They did. Sent them the letters gathered the cell phone calls and they said nothing happened. Talked to all her family they said I was just jealous of a child nothing came of it. As law enforcement said they have to prove it. Certainly when her family is behind them its a little difficult. Then made comments about her family which I fully agree with.


Her best interest was not my concern given the fact that on the day I found out I called her mother, her guardian and all my friends to point out this is not normal. The police can't prove anything and only letters that inappropriate was all the response except for personal comments as he is certainly predatory behavior. So go ahead and find this hard to believe and thank you so much for the support.

It certainly did come up on the first day I found out. Just because I didn't post about it didn't mean it did not come up look at what here mother stated about the girl! What i learned is that a lot of people come from low life backgrounds they don't care about their children about the best interest just what they can get out of the situation thus-her mother! Her mother called about the texts and I talked to her and she said i am not gonna got to police because I jumped in bed with a guy when I 16 and she laughed. this is an example of what I delt with

I didn't drive the car he is in the drivers seat and her mother and the guardian. I put this on them from day ONE. She is 18 and now they all can see what i said was not a ravings from a mad women. You took this out of context as usual " I was glad to make him happy."



Your just an [censored] totally untrue! Taking it out of context again. I am not going to be blamed for this I have suffered and endured things your not capable of understating. You are morally corrupt to take a few posts and say I didn't do a thing. YOUR NOT WANTING TO READ WHAT WAS WRITTEN and what I did. YOU have a lot of NERVE. I have a right to focus on my hurt feelings its mine. My whole adult life have done everything right for my family. I get tossed for an 18 year old and you chew me out I did nothing? YES I DID her family cops and all friends did nothing. THE ONLY ONE WHO CHEWED OUT H was the preacher. Only person who told him HE WAS WRONG.
As for making him happy was when she was two months from 17 and her gaurdian called me crying to come back for lessons and that THE CHILD now has a caring family since she lives with them and doesn't call and can handle her problems now with her new family. That is the only reason I let them both back. I WAS WRONG that poor child as you stated it gave her password to myspace so he could see how she bragged him up to everyone. Never named him he was her special friend as she stated it. I found out THAT CHILD called him the whole time they were not allowed to be talking. AT LEAST I walked around believing that this was true. When the whole TIME THAT CHILD was pursuing H and calling him HER DREAM. NOW that child is 18 SHE CAN REALIZE that dream. SO take your chewing out to people that are not victims such as myself and my boys and put the moral fortitude on her family and police that did nothing.

Not according to police.

MissAdia, has your husband sexually molested/exploited other girls at his school?

You stated on this thread today that he "convinced" you this was all "professional" and you learned to allow him his decisions, while you turned your head the other way. I just want to know if there could be other girls at risk here, too?

Please stop and read. I did have evidence of love letters I got on this board for support for me. Not for her no. She had all support from her family and friends. H was now her new daddy. I took everything to everyone. I was the crazy one I was the nuts one. I wanted advice and support because I was sick in my sould and heart. I didn't not come on here for her your right. I came for me. I had no one to talk too no one would support me going against my husband for three years I have been attacked accused by people saying HOW CAN YOU DO THAT TO YOUR HUSBAND and your doing it again. Saying I did nothing. I am damned if i try to get some support and damned when I did the right thing only because he wasn't charged or arrested. What more do you want. I needed support and people that didn't judge me and supported me when I was doing the right things and I get. HE IS DANGEROUS that is yet to be proved. HE IS AN IDIOT is proven.

I wanted support on this board to help me and my boys. I didn't do anything wrong and your being so cruel to say I did. THIS IS NOT A SCHOOL and your lying again no place was it written it was SCHOOL.

Well, shame on her, she probably had it coming, right? Just so I have this straight in my head, we to blame HER and not you?

Now, how old was she? And how old are you?

you wrote in 2006:


So, is he giving "lessons" to other girls?

I never stated a school you did. Its not. He has never acted or done this in anyway. I wouldn't have been married to him. When he turned 50 four years ago he went off the deep end. I have been dealing with fallout. When this first took place if you ever had anything in your life to deal with that hits you like a truck running you over. You make bad decisions. I did I admit it. I wanted to believe I wanted to think I was not married to a 50'sh idiot. After time and spying I was wrong then severe depression. As most normal people go through. Honestly I am sick of you blaming me for these two. I wanted support as you can't imagin what its like (yeas I am talking about MY FEELINGS) to know everything you have done since you were 19 is a lie. TO KNOW that you werne't [censored] on the ground to someone you trusted enought to have two boys and life with. To be tossed at an age when you should be settled and have full faith and trust in someone you have lived with almost 30 years.

You can't seem to grasp this part. I am so done with his and her story. I have no more pain to give because its raw and hurtful. So pick on someone else.