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Please look at her thread and see if I am way off base.


BS 52, FWH 53, Married 1-1-84
D-day 5-14-07, WH moved in with OW
Plan A 9 months, DARK Plan B 3-17-08 until 3-2-09
WH and OW broke up 1-09
Started over 7-09
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Originally Posted by QueeniesNewLife
Please look at her thread and see if I am way off base.


No, you're not off base.
Relax.
Don't take other people's situations personally or you will burn out on MB.

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I'm more just stunned.





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D-day 5-14-07, WH moved in with OW
Plan A 9 months, DARK Plan B 3-17-08 until 3-2-09
WH and OW broke up 1-09
Started over 7-09
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I'm more just stunned.

WHY?

I've been telling you that YOU are YOU...EVERYONE is DIFFERENT...


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That's why I asked for someone else's input. Because I react a certain way and don't want to hurt anyone.


BS 52, FWH 53, Married 1-1-84
D-day 5-14-07, WH moved in with OW
Plan A 9 months, DARK Plan B 3-17-08 until 3-2-09
WH and OW broke up 1-09
Started over 7-09
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Originally Posted by QueeniesNewLife
That's why I asked for someone else's input. Because I react a certain way and don't want to hurt anyone.



(sigh)(shakin my head).....

Queenie, I could really 2x4 you right now. All this sounds like some STINKIN THINKIN. You are doing fine and you have been through all of this and around long enough to give advice or opinion. You know better than to doubt yourself........

ok...that's enough, because you know I love ya girl....


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It's just my need to fix or help someone. The person who I really need to be helping and fixing is MYSELF and I just DON'T WANT TO. Because it's SO HARD.

That's all. And I am just going to have to learn how to let everyone have their OWN JOURNEY and not MINE.



BS 52, FWH 53, Married 1-1-84
D-day 5-14-07, WH moved in with OW
Plan A 9 months, DARK Plan B 3-17-08 until 3-2-09
WH and OW broke up 1-09
Started over 7-09
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Queenie:

I'm continuing to have a CRUSH on YOU..

YOU HAVE SOOO GOT IT!!

TRUST YOUR GUT!!


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I haven't GOT IT...

I continue to GET IT....

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BS 52, FWH 53, Married 1-1-84
D-day 5-14-07, WH moved in with OW
Plan A 9 months, DARK Plan B 3-17-08 until 3-2-09
WH and OW broke up 1-09
Started over 7-09

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