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Adoption is the compassionate thing to do considering ONLY the childs best interest (which will be understandably difficult for you to conceive of in a still wayward selfish mindset). He/she didn't ask to be born into this mess and adoption CAN fix it.

Adoption is so such a compassionate and selfless thing to do but even under the worst circumstances of infedilty it maynot always be an option as the person who is giving up that child is not capable mentally of doing so. Adoption can yes Make it go away but it's not the only option. I understand your reasons for saying it.....but it's not as easy as it sounds.

A very young girl, or someone who was raped or abused and got pregnant or someone who is mentally unable to care for that child are perfect canidates for being a birth mother who gives up her child......just because it has cramped something in your life is not a good reason to put your children up for adoption imho.