Something like that HAS HAPPENED and, to be honest, is most likely happening RIGHT NOW..

They most likely are discussing this and coming up with some sort of PLAN..

Let's see...


Good point, Jerry...

I get tired of FIGHTING...

I've got a headache right now...

Time to ENJOY life....


At least now you'll know what has happened if this THREAD disappears.

first Pepper... now you...

Stop...

You two women keep making me tear up...


I ment what I said... you both have been a blessing to me on very dark days...

A miracle from heaven...

Mimi,

If what you say is true,(and I don't doubt you) should you not expose the link to that forum so that others may also be aware ot what's being said about them behind their back?

Truth and honesty are the keys to wisdom and undrstanding.

Just wondering?

All Blessings,
Jerry

I LOATHE mean people. They make me angry, and you wouldn't like me when I'm angry. It's really a good thing PWC left when he did. His venom was beginning to spread like a bad rash, and I was not interested in following his lead.

I am a part of my own clique here. the KILLER BEES, and we do talk offline occassionally, about family and some offcolor stuff we couldn't post here, but that's about it. Of course, none of us are considered VETS. Honestly, the only vets who have posted consistently to me are Mimi, LA, and LG ( and for a bright shiny moment BR--miss your swift kicks lady ;)). so, if any of y'all are involved, I'm gonna wring your necks. Did I type that out loud?

I think it was MEDC who brought up something about this new forum type behavior between the MODs and vets. Weird. I have noticed some MODS actually posting on funny threads, which I never saw before. Just seems odd to me. (shoulder shrug)

I'm not much of a consipiracy theorist, so I'll just let it all unfold. It's a waste of my brain cells, in their ever shrinking numbers, to think too much on this.

I don't have the link to the forum.

There are MANY others HERE that do, though.

Maybe you could describe the forum?

Look, now I'm thinking about this again. Dangit! Prolly because I respect you, and I have this HUGE protective nature. It even gets in the way of natural consequences to my son, which I'm working on

Believer always knows just the right thing to say. Bullseye.

The other place has been going on for a long time. Just ignore it. It used to make me feel uncomfortable, but then I stopped thinking about it and started doing something useful like cleaning the toilets and scooping dog poop.

G-d I love you Believer. You have such a warm way with words and life.

I've said most of all that matters to ME.

There's folks HERE that REALLY know and could be open and honest and come forward to keep this from DESTROYING what we have here on this wonderful forum.

It's so interesting how it's the epitome of how affairs work..

DECEITFULNESS and DISHONESTY brewing with the need to KEEP SECRETS...

Need aspirin. I have LOTS and always love to SHARE.

I LOVE ME some B, myself...

But, IMO, this can't be IGNORED...

Oh my..just realized that I was FLEEING again..the OLD FIGHT OR FLIGHT...happens naturally when I start FEELING STRONGLY...

LA, if you're reading, I hung in here to SPEAK MY TRUTH..

I was FLEEING but I have been holding my tongue and not talking UGLY..that's prolly why I got the headache...tensing up, holding that ANGER in..YUCK...

As you have been doing all morning, continue to pray and ask G-d what HIS WILL is for you.

I believe in you, I believe in your FAITH, and I believe in your commitment to do G-ds will and live in that will.

If he needs you to stand up and fight, I believe you will.

And see, the thread hasn't been taken away... not yet at least. Besides I have copied and pasted into my own file so it will not likely ever go away.

Mimi,

I have not a clue what you are talking about, but who gives a flying "you-know-what." There are always going to be mean, deceitful individuals in this world. Gee, I'm M to one. Imagine that....

Anyway, know that many of us here appreciate your help and the time that you give here. We realize that those of you who give so unselfishly of your time are the good people. Easier said than done, but don't let it bother you. My bet is that they are just jealous....

I just spoke to my H and one of my sons on the phone and my head stopped hurting.

THEY work better than Tylenol.

((((Mimi))))

All I can say is WOW...I don't know what is going on either, but you know my feelings on YOU......

I personally want to thank you for the time and energy you have spent on me....and for giving me a personal shout out, because YOU care about me and my M. If that doesn't speak volumes of your character, I don't know what does.....

This morning I am having a hard time putting my thoughts together especially when others have done it so eloquently (me love some B as well....).

I will say this though....I was told by someone not to long ago that when I was telling her about this place, it reminded them of their Alan-non meetings. It is a support group. Other there are walking the same life she has adn she can understand my need for this place.

These turn of events almost are like a dagger, because you hate to see something you believe in destroyed....kind of like our M's. But, I also know there are some AMAZING people on here, who help guide and support the ones who had no where else to turn to.....

Again, Mimi, you have been there a picked me up and let me know what it takes to be a stronger woman today.....

JJ

ps...you will have mail shortly......I am sorry for your betrayal.....

Mimi,

If I could see you now in person, I would fall on the floor, wrap my arms around your knees and BEG you not to leave.

I have never posted to you, I have not even really posted my story, but you will NEVER know how much your posts mean to me. I have read back when you first started posting, seen what you have been through and realized that your advice and word can be trusted. PLEASE DON'T LEAVE.

There are a number of vets who are like you and when I see that they have posted, I READ AND READ AND READ.

The Goddess thread has been a special source of inspiration to me.

This is purely selfish on my part, but I am learning to ask for what I need and for what I KNOW is good for me. PLEASE DON'T LEAVE.

I have no idea who or what you are talking about. Doesn't matter to me. I myself have been the victim of lies, meanness, rumors, behind the scenes talk and manipulation. So much so that I was forced out of my long-time church.

And then, of course, there was our common situation, our H's affairs. How much worse were THOSE lies, THAT meanness, the manipulation by our MOST beloved??? And yet, you have not only survived that, you have thrived and given us all HERE the inspiration to thrive.

There is meanness here. It only follows. On here, we talk daily about SATAN'S biggest lies of all, that the grass would be greener with another partner, or with NO partner, or that we are only worthy of the crumbs a partner wants to throw us, or that God does not want us to be happy, or that it is somehow wrong to stand up for right, or......I can go on and on and on. Satan will use anyone and any trick to destroy the good work of MB.

Do you know Psalm 35? I especially like the NIV version. It begins:

"Contend oh Lord, with those who contend
with me...."

That psalm got me through my horrible church experience and the realization that there was someone(OW) who wished the worst in my life.

I will pray it over you right now, out loud, as soon as I post this. I hope you can bury it in your heart. I hope it will give you whatever you need to stay with us who so much need the benefit of your hard-earned wisdom and strength.

Humbly,
WH2LE

Mimi,

I invite you to email me. My addy is in my profile.

Mark

Well, it's supposed to be in my profile. Let me look into that.

I don't know about all that stuff but one thing I DO know is that I don't want you to leave, mimi!!



PLEASE STAY!!