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I'M HERE...


I made it happen..a joyful life..filled with peace, contentment, happiness and fabulocity.
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Mimi - Stay here please. You are valued and needed. I'm so sorry that this stuff happened, because it isn't good for marriagebuilding. But I respect you for speaking up. That took courage.

Melody can weigh in here or not.

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There is so much I want to say....but won't as I don't want this to get locked/deleted/whatever....

All I can say is WOW...it all makes sense now.
I'm sorry mimi. You are special.

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married - I had two posts deleted today. Can't remember how many posts I have here, but a bunch. I've only been edited twice in 5 years, and never have had posts removed until today.

I'm sure Mimi appreciates your support and I know that there are lots of folks watching. Hang in there, let's get past this, and continue being Goddesses and rebuilding marriages.

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I just checked for a few old posts myself and they are gone.
I wonder if it is because they were before the new board though...maybe they didn't get transfered over??


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Maybe they didn't get transferred over.

But let's move on to becoming a Goddess. This thread really changed me, and I think it is a GREAT one for new women coming here.

People at work are always remarking on how good I look. And that is just since this thread.

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B, I haven't seen any of the thread or posts that apparently caused a ruckus, but from what I know of you, I almost surely disagree with your posts being edited.

I understand the mods have a difficult job, and am grateful to them for all their work, but at the same time, I do not like the superPC climate where folks sometimes cannot even speak their own truth, honestly and respectfully, without being edited. Maybe I would have agreed with your POV and maybe not, but I wish I had the chance to see it.

We can't take away all option to air differences of opinion without becoming a dictatorship, and that is my big concern.


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Let's HOLD ON TIGHT to OUR GODDESS THREAD!!

I really, really need some NEW SHOWER GEL and CANDLES!!

I've been depriving myself...


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People at work are always remarking on how good I look. And that is just since this thread.

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Have you continued to wear makeup?


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Thanks Neak. This stuff has gone on for a long time. I'd pretty much blocked it out a year ago. Mimi's post this morning brought it all back.

And it hurts that the person that has the chat line is the one who helped me most.

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Mimi - Nice clothes, makeup (which I haven't worn ever), and a smiley face. It is AMAZING how many people have noticed.

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I have a tiny little hazelnut candle burning right now in the truck.



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Good for you, Neak. Keep on keeping on.

I have fresh flowers that are smelling up my whole house.

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Hanging on to the GODDESS thread!

This was such a wake-up for me. I am not doing so great at staying dolled up like I did before i went to AZ in Feb/March, but certainly more so than before I started on this thread.

Thanks Meems....

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And I hope all of the Goddesses here and anyone else posting will search their hearts.

Eliminate evil from your life.

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Mimi - Stay here please. You are valued and needed. I'm so sorry that this stuff happened, because it isn't good for marriagebuilding. But I respect you for speaking up. That took courage.

Melody can weigh in here or not.

Mimi, I will weigh in and say that I hope you do stay around. It would be a tragedy to see you go.


"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt

Exposure 101


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And believer, I very much agree that we should eliminate evil from our lives! I know that is how I live and I hope others do too. smile


"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt

Exposure 101


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My flowers are planted(well at least the ones I bought today).

I filled up the window boxes with yellow and coral tuberous begonias and trailing ivy. And I found a beautiful African Daisy. It is lilac with a dark purple center. I picked it up at the nursery, coveted it, set it down, and then I thought, "Hey, this is a symbol of your NEW marriage for the world to see," and I bought it.

I weeded and raked and shaped and watered.

As I worked I got more and more ideas.

This is the first time in my entire life that I don't feel guilty about buying the flowers.

Blessings to all,
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This SUNBATHING GODDESS, took full advantage of the day and spent it outside enjoying a GF company. Sharing, laughing and doing as people have taught me. Building a happy, loving life that is led by G-d.

I'll dossy myself up and head out to my AA meeting tonight and pray like I haven't before to continue to walk in G-ds will and face the evil forces that confront me daily. And REMEMBER it was MIMI who TAUGHT me that I COULD......

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WONDERFUL, Wkng!!


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