My husband and I have been together for 15 years. I love him more than anything. We have a 12 year old daughter - she is wonderful. Recently, my husband's best friend was killed in Afghanistan (January). He's been in turmoil since our friend was killed. He's not himself. He's trying to deal with everything on the inside. Now, this weekend, he told me that he loves me, but he's not in love with me. He told me that he doesn't know what that means. He said that he doesn't know what to do. I asked him if he wanted me to leave and he said he did not know. He is not sure about anything right now. I think that this is part of the turmoil he is going through. We have started talking about this - and last night had a productive conversation. I'm terrified that he will end our marriage and then realize he made a huge mistake. I told him - for the sake of our daughter - that if he is not 100% sure, then we need to work on it. He said he'll always take care of us and that he just does not know what to do. He said that we could work on it. But, I don't know what to do. I need advice. I'm thinking that the first step should be open, honest communication - trying to get him to open up and share. What else can I try? Please, if you pray, say a prayer for me and my husband. I love him and don't want to lose him.

Thanks...

Andi