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I keep reading about so many people on here who are in Plan B and I am curious if there is anyone here whose marriage recovered after Plan B.
I've read several people say Plan B worked for them, because they recovered, but not their marriage.
I am specifically looking for stories about marriages that have recovered after Plan B.
BW 38 (me)
FWH 42
Married 7 years
DD 6
SD 15
11-2006 H said he wanted a divorce and walked out
3-2007 I told H I wanted him back
3-2007 to 4-2007 D-day's
4-2007 H moved back in for good
Today-In recovery, but a long way to recovered
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Plan B is not really intended to recover the marriage. It is a last-ditch effort to wait for the A to die and protect the love feelings the BS still has for the WS. Recovery cannot happen while the A is ongoing.
An analogy I would use is imagine a basketball star gets shot. The doctors first have to save his life before he can ever get back on the court and work on being a great basketball player again. So asking if Plan B "recovered" a marriage is like asking "Did going to the hospital after getting shot 'recover' his basketball career?"
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Give a shout out to Mimi. She saved her marriage with Plan B.
Me = FBS age 51
FWH = age 51
M 25 years, 2 children 16 and 20
D-Day 5/19/05
Recovered and happy
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