When I'm really angry and venting here, I often imagine that some anonymous lurker from another message board, like a message board for Other Women or for Philanderers, is reading what I type. That makes it easy to get out some of my anger and hatred. Yes, I said hatred.

If you KNEW members of "those" sites were reading your posts, what would you say?

If I can find a way to convey my ideas without violating every rule this site has, I'll post mine.

Well they have to have something to keep themselves busy when they've been mothballed by a WS.

How are you doing lately Krazy???

I'm doing OK, except for a couple of nagging issues that may never be resolved.

Most of my issues are just that...MY issues. I used to beat myself up over them, but I'm getting to the point of acceptance. They are MY issues. Nobody can help me. My FWW is doing most of the things she should.

I'm rapidly getting to the point where I will know if I'm just one of those people who can never get past being cheated on.

This would have been a better thread to have started last friday seeing as many of them have to spend holiday weekends alone while their illicit lover is STUCK spending time with their real families.

Holidays are devastating to OP's as their Married Partners always demonstrate their true priorities. The OW boards are busy all snorting about trying to console each other and prop up the justifications about why they have been cast aside, yet again, in favor of their MM's "abusive""undeserving" wife and family.

Even Barbara Walters, when discussing her affair with a married congressman, was sure to state that ONE YEAR (I believe the last Christmas of the 3 year affair) the congressman stayed with her in Washington over the holidays instead of his family in order to demonstrate/justify just how special she actually was to him versus the "typical" affair.

Their evil can be comical at times.

Did you know their was an heirarchy to OW's too???

If a married woman having an affair with a MM shows up on there boards they abuse her as a "cake-eater" and attack her with vigor.

Mr. Wondering

Really??

Do they treat a MM seeing a MOW the same way?

Only SOP's get repsect there?

That's like a mass murderer scolding a serial killer for being a bad person!

Friggin' dipsh!ts.