I am UDDERLY sorry I used the word COWLIKE to describe that guy's cheater wife. But look at why:
1. The wife deliberately had sex with a man outside the marriage, and probably many times, she could not control herself very well. Cows have no control over which "steer" mounts them. They just "go with it".
2. The wife was too ignorant (or something) to use proper birth control. Cows cannot use birth control either. They either get pregnant or they do not.
3. I have nothing against cows. They cannot help themselves. I really like most cows. But humans should not behave as cows, we are supposed to be more responsible than that.
4. I do have anger against women or men that cheat and create new life due to thier irresponsibilty.
Okay Stella, now we know WHY you thought "entitled" to post what you did to someone...you "internalized" THEIR problem with your own feelings. You can't do that, Stella, and be a "Lifesytle Coach," or any other sort of advisor (such as on MB or to others who are struggling with the problems of life).
"1. The wife deliberately had sex with a man outside the marriage, and probably many times, she could not control herself very well. Cows have no control over which "steer" mounts them. They just "go with it"." Yes, ALL Wayward Spouse CHOOSE to engage in adultery, whether it involves sex or not. But they, unlike your "cow" analogy, DO choose...because they are human beings and don't "have to" operate on emotional or biological impulses. They are responsible for their choices just as we all are responsible for our choices. It "demeans" a cow to give them responsibility for their actions that are inherent in BEING a cow (natural instinct) rather than being a human being with the free will ability to choose.
"2. The wife was too ignorant (or something) to use proper birth control. Cows cannot use birth control either. They either get pregnant or they do not." "Ignorance" is not the reason. Selfishness is the reason and it goes "hand-in-hand" with the same selfishenss that "entitles" someone to engage in adultery. Again, cows don't "choose."
"3. I have nothing against cows. They cannot help themselves. I really like most cows. But humans should not behave as cows, we are supposed to be more responsible than that." Yes, human beings ARE "supposed to be more responsible." But "supposed to be" is no different than your choice to post as you did to TTH and "rationalize" why you CHOSE to post in what, in my humble opinion, was a very irresponsible way to try to HELP TTH with his problem and in your post on another thread ADVOCATING that the husband TAKE his wife, and insist upon, and abortion as THE way to solve the "problem" of a child conceived through adultery.
It advocates, especially for believers in Christ Jesus and the sanctity of life, an "easy out" by using one sin (murder of an innocent child) to pay for the sins of the adults. "Thou shalt not commit adultery" and "Thou shalt not murder" are EQUAL commands from God, and neither one revolves around the "circumstances" that we face in our lives.
"4. I do have anger against women or men that cheat and create new life due to thier irresponsibilty." So do I. So do most people. That's called "Righteous Anger." But the command from God when dealing with righteous anger about sin against God is "in your anger, do not use that anger as an excuse for yourself to then commit a sin or a sinful response."
And that, Stella is "anUDDER" opinion. You might want to "chew the cud" on that for a while and see if you want to swallow it and make it a part of you, or if you choose not to and want to continue letting your emotional responses control you.
Either way, the choice is yours.
