Yes, I am leaving MB.

I feel my safe place has been invaded. I am almost 100% positive that due to my exbf and his deep seeded issues, my exh and ow have been reading here as well.

I am not sure what his problem is or why he can't just leave me alone or stay out of the lives of those who, whether I like it or not, do surround me. When it ended I just wanted it to be done. I just want to be left alone and to have those who are in my life to be left alone as well.

It is ridiculous, childish, and sick.

And I do not feel I can post here anymore.
My safe place is gone.

This was supposed to be the one place I could come and anonymously vent. The place I could cry and laugh and be steaming mad too. Now I can't. It is known who I am now, and anonymous is no longer true. All because of one sick person.

My life is going well, I am on a perfect path. I am successful and will continue to be so. I have a great job and am on my way for a very professional career in counseling in the next few years. I don't have time for childish games. My bachelors will be done soon, my finances are quickly getting in order, and we are moving to a great location. I am healthy and strong and in the best place I have ever been. I don't need nonsense from those who can't seem to move on or get a life.

I will miss all of you. You have truly been friends. I am just sick over this. But I am done.

I have asked that my last 2 threads be deleted. I hope the mods will do that for me. I don't want them here where they can be read by invaders any longer.

I will pray for all of you, and for those who feel the need to continue to invade my life like this. It is time for me to move on.

Hugs and my love
mlhb

I don't really want to leave but maybe it is time. I have homework and kids to concentrate on. And my upcoming move and my work.

If anyone would like to keep in touch you can email me @ my alternate email which is: **edit**

Some on here already have my personal email.

I hope people will keep in touch.

Thank you to the mods for agreeing to put my 2 threads in storage.

mlhb

Our loss, mlhb...hope it will be your GREAT gain, 'k?

Be well and thank you for all your time here on MB. I know you helped so many people in a lot of ways--too many to count.

LA

Thank you.

mlhb

Hey sweetie...let me ask you a question...why even care of thaqt no good pos reads here or not. He has taken enough away you...don't give him the power to take anything else.

If you decide to leave...keep in touch via email.

MEDC,
you know I will keep in touch!

I feel it is best for now.
I feel like this has turned into a circus freak show all because of one person who, I hope, returns to therapy because he sure ain't all better yet...

I might be back under a new name at some point, so I can feel anonymous again...

mlhb

M,

You have mail.

bye mlhb, I will miss your spirit! Take care.

Maybe you might want to sleep on this decision. If you let them run you off from here, you are giving them the power to control where you go and what you do.

Aw shucks mlhb.

Larry

I hate to see you go especially under these conditions. I hope you'll be able to return when you feel it's safe for you. Until then, good luck, God bless, take care!

Aw, well, poop!

What a shame.

Live well, mlhb. It's the best antidote to all of this.

All right, after sleeping on it and thinking about it, I don't feel I should completely leave this place.

I have been here for 3 years now and I don't think I should let others choose whether or not I am here.

So: if you feel the need to read about me, check up on me, because you have nothing better to do (exboyfriend, mistress, and exhusband), HAVE AT IT!

I am going to stay and help people where I can and vent when I need to.

My threads have been deleted at my request and it is time to move on.

Thanks for the encouragement and cheering me to stay.

mlhb

I'm so proud and grateful. You don't post on my thread, but you do on so many others and you are so helpful to us.

Thank you for this...

Thank you for the email and the kind words Queenie!

I like to try to help when I can.

I wish I had found this place earlier in my marriage. A lot of pain could have been avoided.

mlhb

mlhb....

I haven't read any of this....but I just wanted to let you know I will personally will miss you......thanks for all your help and support through the months.....miss ya honey...

not2fun

well, you should read it cuz i changed my mind!

and you're welcome... :-)

mlhb

Alot of us can say this.....

If this is true then I guess this site has done it's job in the fact that YOU are the only one that has moved on from the divorcee and the exbf.

You have to wonder what your exh and his ho-ho and your exbf will get out of spying on you and your life how freaking creepy is that?

They probably did it out of the same morbid curiosity that mhlb did when she looked at their myspace pages. I think mhlb needs to take some responsibility for them being here right now reading her posts since it was triggered by her going to their myspace pages and reading their posts. This is not to say that her exbf, exh, and ow are not low life scum but would they be here reading about her life if they had not found out she was reading about theirs?