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#2068316 06/04/08 06:45 PM
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Yes, I am leaving MB.

I feel my safe place has been invaded. I am almost 100% positive that due to my exbf and his deep seeded issues, my exh and ow have been reading here as well.

I am not sure what his problem is or why he can't just leave me alone or stay out of the lives of those who, whether I like it or not, do surround me. When it ended I just wanted it to be done. I just want to be left alone and to have those who are in my life to be left alone as well.

It is ridiculous, childish, and sick.

And I do not feel I can post here anymore.
My safe place is gone.

This was supposed to be the one place I could come and anonymously vent. The place I could cry and laugh and be steaming mad too. Now I can't. It is known who I am now, and anonymous is no longer true. All because of one sick person.

My life is going well, I am on a perfect path. I am successful and will continue to be so. I have a great job and am on my way for a very professional career in counseling in the next few years. I don't have time for childish games. My bachelors will be done soon, my finances are quickly getting in order, and we are moving to a great location. I am healthy and strong and in the best place I have ever been. I don't need nonsense from those who can't seem to move on or get a life.

I will miss all of you. You have truly been friends. I am just sick over this. But I am done.

I have asked that my last 2 threads be deleted. I hope the mods will do that for me. I don't want them here where they can be read by invaders any longer.

I will pray for all of you, and for those who feel the need to continue to invade my life like this. It is time for me to move on.

Hugs and my love
mlhb


God first, family second, and all else will fall into place.

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I don't want you to leave.

Let the mopheads come and play with me, then they will get a gander of real deep seeded issues.


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Thank you Pariah, that is kind of you.

I don't really want to leave but maybe it is time. I have homework and kids to concentrate on. And my upcoming move and my work.

If anyone would like to keep in touch you can email me @ my alternate email which is: michellegetsfit@yahoo.com

Some on here already have my personal email.

I hope people will keep in touch.

Thank you to the mods for agreeing to put my 2 threads in storage.

mlhb


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It's good to take an occasional break from this place and focus on "real life". Enjoy your time off, and stop by to say "hi" once in a while!

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I will be posting from time to time.
I do not feel like I want to leave completely anymore after sleeping on it.

But I think I will stick to just posting on other's threads and not post my own right now.

mlhb


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Good Luck to you. I know you will thrive.


It was a marriage that never really started.
H: Conflict Avoider, NPD No communication skills (Confirmed by MC) Me: Enabler
Sep'd 12/01, D'd 08/03.
My joys and the light of my life: DD 11, DD 9
*Approach life and situations from the point of love - not from fear.*

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