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I was.A better response would have been, "Ok. thanks. I'll try to ask more questions from posters rather than complain. Maybe, I'll learn something if I respond that way." Where? all you are helping with is pointing out that 2x4 swinging is allowed....thanks, very helpful.
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A week ago she was having sex with another man. Now you are proudly announcing YOU got to have sex with her!
I dont think it is anything to be proud about. She is just a liar, untrustworthy, may have an STD, is dirty and or slutty and likes risky sex.
Having sex with this type of woman is not a badge of honor. It is terrible. Too bad she is your wife.
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no, you started it so you could tell us you shagged your wife twice in the backseat in defiance of an order that you apparently did or did not have anything to do with! Then leave !!!!
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for a man that got laid twice last night, you are rather tense.
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A week ago she was having sex with another man. Now you are proudly announcing YOU got to have sex with her!
I dont think it is anything to be proud about. She is just a liar, untrustworthy, may have an STD, is dirty and or slutty and likes risky sex.
Having sex with this type of woman is not a badge of honor. It is terrible. Too bad she is your wife. When did I state that she had sex with him a week ago? And, I stated eralier that she had a test performed...I appreciate you responding to the thread, and I will overlook this post, so you can freshen up on the threads contents.
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for a man that got laid twice last night, you are rather tense. This is true lol.
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Suggestion...recognize your mistake in breaking the RO, admit it, and then simply ignore any further comments about it, and focus on the posts that are recovery oriented.
There have been some very valid points raised that you need to think about. I think the point has been made...no value in continuing to fight over it.
Your last post to me left me a little confused. The affair is apparently ended. She's living at home with her parents, or at home with you?
The RO has prevented contact between the two of you for how long now?
Have you considered/scheduled MC for the two of you to move forward in recovery with?
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"Found out that she had enough gas left in the tank to screw me over again...May 27th, 2008 "
What did you mean by this?
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Where? all you are helping with is pointing out that 2x4 swinging is allowed....thanks, very helpful. No, I was giving you another perspective on 2 by 4's. And then I gave you a different way to respond to them that could help you learn and grow.
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Suggestion...recognize your mistake in breaking the RO, admit it, and then simply ignore any further comments about it, and focus on the posts that are recovery oriented.
There have been some very valid points raised that you need to think about. I think the point has been made...no value in continuing to fight over it.
Your last post to me left me a little confused. The affair is apparently ended. She's living at home with her parents, or at home with you?
The RO has prevented contact between the two of you for how long now?
Have you considered/scheduled MC for the two of you to move forward in recovery with? ended
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"Found out that she had enough gas left in the tank to screw me over again...May 27th, 2008 "
What did you mean by this? On that day, I found out that the affair she was admitting to (1 sexual encounter, 2 months ago) was actually 4 sexual encounters over the course of 1 month (prior to when I found out and exposed them). I can see how my sig is a little misleading...I'll change it. I understand how it could be taken out of context....my bad. 
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I can imagine sex would feel exciting if other men were after your wife too. And if she acts slutty with you that could be exciting also. I guess I need to start acting more slutty and having more fun. Heck, all these affairs, the catting around, and hardly any consequenses. Makes me sad.
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[quote=Stellakat]**EDIT**
I'm not going to defend the choices she has made (in the pst) or her honor (I've used these exact words as well) but, has noone here ever had sex in a car?
I'm picking up what you are putting down here
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Like a bunch of bees to honey. Maybe you are just part of a hive, herd or a flock or something. My question is will she do it again?
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Like a bunch of bees to honey. Maybe you are just part of a hive, herd or a flock or something. My question is will she do it again? Prior to last week (when she was ordered to leave the house), she was home, or with me, every single minute for 2 months. Unless there are bees hiding in my house somewhere, I'm pretty sure this isn't the case.
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If this topic hopelessly deteriorates into bickering it will be locked.
Introvert, do you want it locked at this time?
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If this topic hopelessly deteriorates into bickering it will be locked.
Introvert, do you want it locked at this time?
c00per It's okay cooper. I think the bickering has subsided. I would like to continue if that is okay. 
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For the sake of argument, answer this question for me:
When you were young, did you walk 2 school, or carry your lunch?
Sound like a silly, OT question?
Good, it was.
Similar 2 most of this thread.
'Nother question for you, more relevant this time:
You said on one of your other threads that you were going 2 call the Harleys for an appointment. Have you? I wouldn't engage in arguments here until you've spoken with someone.
Recommendation:
Tone down the "lol"s. Particularly, where you use them sounds like you don't take what's happening seriously.
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For the sake of argument, answer this question for me:
When you were young, did you walk 2 school, or carry your lunch?
Sound like a silly, OT question?
Good, it was.
Similar 2 most of this thread.
'Nother question for you, more relevant this time:
You said on one of your other threads that you were going 2 call the Harleys for an appointment. Have you? I wouldn't engage in arguments here until you've spoken with someone.
Recommendation:
Tone down the "lol"s. Particularly, where you use them sounds like you don't take what's happening seriously.
-ol' 2long The last "lol" was to try to tone down the tense atmosphere that I (AND OTHERS) helped create...it wasn't for any other reason. I will book my telephone appointment for the next available time. I'm not sure why I'm not allowed to voice my opinion or stand up for myself just because I haven't spoken with the Harley's yet...but, I'll just have to trust you on that one.
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