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Just curious if any BH's would like to get together in one thread and discuss some of our issues with our WW's infidelity, and issues with our healing, recovery, divorce, etc....? BBF's welcome too.
Introvert is present
"Rather than love, than money, than fame, give me truth"
Henry David Thoreau
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Me: BH
Her: FWW
Kids:DSD 12, DS 7, DD, 7
EA/PA: September 2007 - November 2007
Status: In Recovery
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BH(me): 40ish
FWW:(ILMH) 28yo
DS 3yo
Married 7yrs
Together 10 yrs
??? Spring '07 - Adultery Begins
8/25/07 - 1st D-day (week of our anniv.)
8/07 thru 5/08 - About a dozen D-days/Gaslighting/Flaunting/Fake Recoveries
She finally quit on...
1/1/08 - First real NC attempt(Maybe?)
3/1/08 - Told me OM is an A**hole.(Hope?)
5/3/08 - D-day (Admitted to PA once)
5/4/08 - Latest D-day(Finally confessed to multiple EA/PA in our home)
5/8/08 - Present
Struggling to hold on
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BH - me - 29
WW - 28
Married 07/2001
D-Day #2 - 03/01/2008
03/22/2008 - NC Established
05/??/2008 - NC Broken (I think)
07/01/2008 - WW 'Unsure of what she wants to do'
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Well, things are actually looking up for me today but I am still and H who has been well and truly B'd so I'm in.
Last edited by betterorworse; 06/10/08 06:56 PM. Reason: 5 misspellings in a 25 word post!
BS ME 35, XWW 37, DS 7, DD 5, DS 5, D-day1 12-20-2007.Multiple Ddays
Divorce 1/29/2009
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I'll play...... maybe.....
Me: 56 (FBS) Wife: 55 (FWW)
D-Day August 2005
Married 11/1982 3 Sons 27,25,23
Empty Nesters.
Fully Recovered.
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I am lurking but might chip in 2¢ here and there.
-rh-
Give your absolute best such that you could look back 10 years from now w/ no regret.
Happily Married to Lady Elina - 04/29/06
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Present and accounted for, sir!
D-Day 28 Feb 06
Plan D (Not by choice) - 24 March 06
DD6
DS4(Twin1)
DS4(Twin2)
She moved away with the kids April 08. I contested it and got a lot more time with my kids. She's unhappy that I want to stay involved in their lives and don't settle for being an "every other weekend" dad.
Never going to happen.
Ongoing personal recovery through the help of friends, family, and DC United Soccer!
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I'll be around.  S&C
No man likes to have his intelligence or good faith questioned, especially if he has doubts about it himself. - Henry Brooks Adams
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Married-2004
Me- BH/WH
D-day 1- April 2008
D-day 2- July 2010
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Introvert, as the chairman, perhaps you should call the meeting to order...
Me: BH
Her: FWW
Kids:DSD 12, DS 7, DD, 7
EA/PA: September 2007 - November 2007
Status: In Recovery
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Introvert, as the chairman, perhaps you should call the meeting to order... He's too introverted, hack, cough, gasp  Er, I'm in. We be called "The Hoot Owls." Larry
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I too am lurking and will chime in possibly....
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can extroverts come to this meetin??
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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can extroverts come to this meetin?? Oh heck, now we have to call it the Hoot and Hooter Owls. Larry
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I qualify (against my wishes). I am astounded at the amount of sexual sins in the church.
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can extroverts come to this meetin?? Oh heck, now we have to call it the Hoot and Hooter Owls. Larry I hafta be a hooter girl??? 
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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I hafta be a hooter girl??? Hey - who said anything about allowing chicks on this thread?
Me: 56 (FBS) Wife: 55 (FWW)
D-Day August 2005
Married 11/1982 3 Sons 27,25,23
Empty Nesters.
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