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is that a sarcastic "Sweet" Pariah?


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No sarcasm here.

It's just ironic that you'll get the last laugh when they have to be reminded of the train wreck they caused so they can do their thing.

I'm sorry that you are the one having to jump through hoops to get your name changed.

However it is the exact reason I refused to include her name change in the divorce. If she wanted it changed so badly, she should have never married me in the first place, and that cost will be seperate from the divorce, her's and her's alone.


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Will he have to have a copy of the divorce decree for a marriage license where you are? Here, just fill out an affidavit stating how many marriages/how many divorces, sign before a notary and voila.


Consider how hard it is to change yourself and you'll understand what little chance you have in trying to change others.
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Thanks Pariah...I know how much pain your EX has cost you. It really sucks!!

Yes Laura they do have to show the original decree. At least we did when we got married...it was the second marriage for both of us. This will be his third attempt.

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Requirements may vary as each county in Pennsylvania could have their own requirements.

ID Requirement in Pennsylvania:
You will need to present photo identification such as your driver's license, state ID, or passport. Social Security numbers will be requested.

Residency Requirement:
You do not have to be a resident of Pennsylvania. However, some counties may require that you both speak English or bring with you someone who can translate.
Previous Marriages:
You will need to show a certified copy of the final divorce decree, with court raised seal, of your divorce or annulment decree or know the date of death of a deceased spouse.

If you have resumed your maiden name, related documents must be shown. Foreign documents must be translated into English.

Waiting Period in Pennsylvania:
There's a three (3) day waiting period in Pennsylvania.

You can request a waiver of the waiting period. Send a letter as early as possible addressed to the County Register, requesting a Waiver and your reason why. Your letter should contain both names, a telephone number, proof of your wedding date (a wedding invitation will work), and a return address so a letter of confirmation to be sent to you. There is an additional $15.00 fee in cash only for this service.

Fees in Pennsylvania:
It will cost you approximately $40 to get married in Pennsylvania. Cash only.

Other Tests:
None.

Proxy Marriages in Pennsylvania:
No.

Cousin Marriages in Pennsylvania:
No.

Common-Law Marriages in Pennsylvania.:
No. However, your common-law marriage will be recognized in Pennsylvania if it was created before January 1, 2005.

Same Sex Marriages in Pennsylvania:
No.

Under 18:
If either of you are under 18 years of age, you must pay an additional $5.00, show your Birth Certificate, and have the written consent of a parent or guardian. Anyone under 16 years of age needs parental consent and the approval of a Judge of the Orphans Court.

Officiants:
Any ordained minister, priest or rabbi of any regularly established church or congregation, Judges, Justices of Peace, and County Clerks or their appointed Deputies may perform wedding ceremonies. Mayors of cities and boroughs are also authorized to perform marriage ceremonies.
See Pennsylvania Statutes, Title 23, Chapter 15 for more information.

Self-Uniting Marriage License:
Yes. If you want this type of license, you need to inform the clerk before you begin the application process.

8/17/07 Update: We heard from a couple who was denied the opportunity to officiate at their own ceremony. We reviewed the Pennsylvania statutes and do not see any changes in the laws. We also checked the legislative sessions for 2007 and couldn't find any change in the laws. Since this could be a county issue, we recommend double-checking with the clerk at the marriage license office where you intend to obtain your marriage license.

Miscellaneous:
License is valid for sixty (60) days.

Copy of Certificate of Marriage:
For marriage records, you will need to contact the Marriage License Clerk, County Court House in there county where the license was issued.


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