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#2072400 06/12/08 11:27 AM
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Due to circumstances before and now that H has moved out I need help snooping. I have another thread in JFO My post on JFO if you want more details.

Short story is H has company car, company cell phone, company credit card, company laptop and a naturally crazy schedule (driving all over the place, does not work in an office) and now he's even out of the house. I hired PI and he tailed him to an apt. complex 20 miles away but couldn't see which exact apt. he went into (H has told me he's staying at motels, paying in cash, not really enough cash taken to make this make sense anyway, he's rarely using our joint CC). Because of where the apt. was I had one suspect who I thought the OW could be and PI's work checks out that she lives there (just moved in April, H left home last time 4/20)in that apt. complex but we don't have solid proof to put him in her apt. Granted this towns too big for a coincidence like that and that area too specific without any other reason.

Today I've asked my PI what more he thinks we can do but I haven't heard back yet. I haven't confronted H yet and have not exposed because I'm worried I don't have enough evidence. I truly believe H doesn't think that I think he is having an A. I am very eager to confront now that I finally have some truth but don't want to blow it.

Thoughts?


BS 32
WH 29
Together since Oct 97
Married Oct 00
WH says needs space 1/31/08
doesn't come home 2/6/08
doesn't come home 2/13-19/08 (missing persons filed)
Leaves 4/20/08
Returns 6/21/08 NC 6/23/08 NC broken 6/25/08
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Also, she has a myspace profile but it is set to private.

Anyone have any idea how a I might could use/see that, if there are pictures there, references to my H or something?


BS 32
WH 29
Together since Oct 97
Married Oct 00
WH says needs space 1/31/08
doesn't come home 2/6/08
doesn't come home 2/13-19/08 (missing persons filed)
Leaves 4/20/08
Returns 6/21/08 NC 6/23/08 NC broken 6/25/08
Joined: Nov 2004
Posts: 8,970
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Please help UAH...

Need your creative minds to help her out in locking down some evidence of an A.

LA


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