Im just about to say fu%^ it. In my situation (ws wont stop affair and all the bulsh&^ that goes with it)would I feel better getting on with the D or trying to make this planA-B thing work? Im getting nothing on her end as far as coperation goes. She still wants a ton of sex but it seems as each day passes and I see her only put energy into Affair. I dont know if its worth it. Anyway do you generally feel better after you file for the D and seperate or do you feel even worse? Asking all who have been there thanks Otis