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Leaving or not leaving has nothing to do with the OM. Yea, right... My wife said this EXACT thing when she was commiting adultery on me. Anyone else??? Yes, WW had to go "find herself"...ended up "finding herself" on **EDIT**
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again....divorced....
hmmmm.....most everyone on MARRIAGE BUILDERS is divorced...what is up with that?
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again....divorced....
hmmmm.....most everyone on MARRIAGE BUILDERS is divorced...what is up with that? **EDIT**
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No wonder she threw you out. You are just another ********** ********************
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he knows about the OM....there is no A
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No wonder she threw you out. You are just ************ ******************************** ********************************* I'm done feeding this troll. I'm out.
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Most divorced members are here recovering from the agony of years with a self absorbed, serial cheater. They are seeking support from other members as they try to help their children get through the pain of their parents destroyed marriage.
The rest of us had a remorseful WS who discovered just in time that their M sucked because they were spending all of their free time trying to please an immoral, adulterer who was only interested in the thrill of getting into their pants.
Me, BW-57
FWH 54
4 kids and 4 grandbabies between us
In recovery since D-day, May 28,2007
FWH never onboard the MB boat but still clinging to the side.
One day at a time by God's grace.
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BH(me): 40ish
FWW:(ILMH) 28yo
DS 3yo
Married 7yrs
Together 10 yrs
??? Spring '07 - Adultery Begins
8/25/07 - 1st D-day (week of our anniv.)
8/07 thru 5/08 - About a dozen D-days/Gaslighting/Flaunting/Fake Recoveries
She finally quit on...
1/1/08 - First real NC attempt(Maybe?)
3/1/08 - Told me OM is an A**hole.(Hope?)
5/3/08 - D-day (Admitted to PA once)
5/4/08 - Latest D-day(Finally confessed to multiple EA/PA in our home)
5/8/08 - Present
Struggling to hold on
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boy, those mods are pretty quick with the *** at other times...funny what they just let run. Could this be the reicarnation of BA?
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I ain't got modded down yet, so I am gonna go into Energizer Bunny mode! 
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Yes...and you are happy with your NEW man....
Your advice makes sense and I am only here to get some advice. You make very good sense and I am carefully listening to what you are saying and it makes me want to cry when you talk about how you kiss him and tell him you appreciate him. I was once like that too. I am not a horrible person but I have done some horrible things and regret them every minute of everyday. Somehow, I guess I justify in my mind that since it is not physical that it is not an affair but I guess I am wrong. I just dont want to make a mistake.
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I was once like that too. yeah, I'm sure that your teachers appreciated your effort.
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again....divorced....
hmmmm.....most everyone on MARRIAGE BUILDERS is divorced...what is up with that? I'm not divorced and you are still a skank. ********
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therainisgone,
I have reported this thread to the moderators because of the suggestions and directions for you to commit suicide and other disrespectful comments.
I do not believe that Dr. Harley would approve of your being treated in that manner on this board whether you are a troll or not.
Btw, an EA (emotional affair) can do as much...or more....damage as a PA (physical affair).
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Yes...and you are happy with your NEW man....
Your advice makes sense and I am only here to get some advice. You make very good sense and I am carefully listening to what you are saying and it makes me want to cry when you talk about how you kiss him and tell him you appreciate him. I was once like that too. I am not a horrible person but I have done some horrible things and regret them every minute of everyday. Somehow, I guess I justify in my mind that since it is not physical that it is not an affair but I guess I am wrong. I just dont want to make a mistake. Then stop being *********** and start figuring out how to fix your m.
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Yes...and you are happy with your NEW man....
Your advice makes sense and I am only here to get some advice. You make very good sense and I am carefully listening to what you are saying and it makes me want to cry when you talk about how you kiss him and tell him you appreciate him. I was once like that too. I am not a horrible person but I have done some horrible things and regret them every minute of everyday. Somehow, I guess I justify in my mind that since it is not physical that it is not an affair but I guess I am wrong. I just dont want to make a mistake. This is the first post where you make sense. This is good. Now, you understand the pain you are causing and how awful its making you feel. Are you willing to put forth the work you need to do to repair the damage? Because if you are, and I mean REALLY are, then there are great resources here for you. Quit being bitchy to the seasoned posters who know this site inside and out and get on with it.
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EA: 2 months, ending June 08
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