I have been told I am an unusual man, but I can't think of much more miserable than robotic SF every day for 100 days whether I feel like it or not. Yuk !

Rather have a spontaneous cuddle every day instead !

Currently separated, heading toward divorce, I can tell you that I will NOT be joining in.

However, I would say that I would much rather have some necking daily than sex. I don't think enough people enjoy a good heavy petting session these days. It's easy to go all the way, but can become mechanical. It's more fun to work up to going all the way, IMO.

Why not change the goal? If you have sex every night because you cannot contain yourself against the foreplay, it's an added bonus.

Well i can say that way back when i was pregnant for my YDD i went into labor early (they got my contractions stopped with drugs) and the doc said we could not have sex because it could cause me to go into labor again w HAD to go over 100 days (i believe the final count was 110 days) without.

Now after she was born though i am not sure that we went 100 days in a row but i can tell you it was quite a lot of days in a row. Kind of felt like we missed out or something

But i am with the rest of you, i think 100 days in a row just to say you did it would not be enjoyable. Part of the fun is leading up to the actually act itself.

PS my H had to have surgery last week so we are having to count the days with"out" right now.

I'm not getting this...

It does not have to be ROBOTIC to have SF 101 days in a row...

How about making each day different?

That can happen!!

I think that's what would make it GREAT..being fun, creative and inventive with each other all those days in a row...communicating with each other OPENLY and HONESTLY about emotional and physical PLEASURE...

I think SEX is about PLAY and having FUN with each other...and also about FULLY and COMPLETELY expressing LOVE...

And when you are "IN LOVE" with each other,PASSIONATELY, filling up the LOVE BANK, it comes NATURAL and EASY...and you can't wait, you want MORE and MORE CLOSENESS..physically and emotionally...

There's loads of POSITIONS...QUICK verses SLOW..working on it ALL DAY verses SPUR OF THE MOMENT...being SOFT vs HARD...AGGRESSIVE vs PASSIVE..HER in charge vs. HIM in charge..playing a zillion different roles...using the toys vs. not...I bet I could go on and on until I reach 101...

I think I'm in...my H mentioned this to me in passing, having seen the interview..I didn't realize he may have been SERIOUS

Mimi

Not everyone has an SF life with that level of experimentation and variation ! As Schnarch says in " Passionate marriage :


You're blessed with Mr Mimi, and he with you !

Schnarch has been THE SOURCE..

We've been working on a PASSIONATE MARRIAGE...

It is THAT...

WE both FEEL BLESSED...

Thanks, BOB...

Two.

Am I good or what!

Only 99 to go!!! You're my idol. H and I are not really speaking today so we'll begin tomorrow.

What is this 'sex' thing you guys are talking about?

PTUEY on your sexual chocolate thingy.

No, seriously, good luck comrades.

Ok..yea..there's the FOOD variations...for more variety...

Ok, but doesn't that get the sheets dirty??

This can be done in LOCATIONS or in/on FURNITURE with NO SHEETS..OR..take off the sheets...adding in more VARIETY...actually I'd didn't think I was that INVENTIVE...

Jeez Mi Mi...I've read some really sound advise here and have been mucho impressed with your wisdom and knowledge....flash forward to this crazy vixen!!! Lucky Mr. Mi mi!! Oh, and you too!

I thought EVERYBODY knew about the use of CHAIRS!!

Mimi:

That's how you can get through 101 days!

Fruits and nuts!

I'm at day four, but I didn't know about the contest til today...

Flamingo and I have a lunch date tommorrow, and Wednesday is in need of some planning so it's looking good...

And, SF can take many forms. For SF to work for 101 days, I would have to think that at LEAST one of the partners had reached orgasm to qualify as a "day"

And if it becomes "mundane" on a daily basis? Then you aren't doing it right....

A couple of months ago, a Pastor "challenged" his flock to have SF for 30! (yes, thirty!) days straight. There was a thread about it here. So, either way, it is a challenge, but it can be done.

LG

Uhmmmm.....HELLO people....when "experimenting" with food, you do it where the food needs to stay....THE KITCHEN

You have the table, the counters, the chairs....jeez....


On that note, there is an article in People Mag. about the couple who did this (the H wrote the book...."Just Do It"..). Anyway, it was very interesting to hear what they said about it. Before they did this, they were only having SF 3x's per month......anyway, they said it DRASITICALLY IMPROVED THEIR MARRIAGE....

not2fun

Hey I can attest Mimi learned a lot about how SF was important to a man during her affair ordeal. She has pounded me a time or 2 about it.....

Needless to say, I think I am getting "it".....

(Though I have to admit, it is hard to break 15 yrs. of my terrible thinking when it comes to SF......but I'm getting there....all this DOES make me think about what I want my kids to know about sex and its importance to Marriage, men, and women.....something I knew NOTHING about...)

not2fun

I once was given some Chocolate Body Frosting which came with a brush.