So give us some specific details so we can make sense of it all. That way we won't have to assume anything.

What do you think about the underlying tenets here at MB that talk about how a wayward spouse acts and thinks when they're in their affair? Do you think that it does not represent you, what you've been doing? Why? What IS your truth?

btw, it's our business because magrod came here asking for help to figure out how to get you back, how to fix his marriage. That's what we're trying to do. That often entails the betrayed spouse (magrod) learning a lot and making a lot of changes. You say you left because of his actions; so if he changes those actions, won't he once again be the man you were in love with when you married? Won't that be a reason to return?

To Resilient:
The phone calls from her stopped, because she made her point & didn't feel the need to beat a dead horse I suppose. Yes I have lied, but so has mogrod1, just ask him!!
You thinking Om is so sneeky made me laugh. You don't know him or why the phone number didnt work. Not everything is so calculated. BTW, Om does not live with the OMW.
Nope, it wasn't a proplem him telling them what they already know. They thought it was wierd of him to do so, but hey..whatever?
Everyone alreadys knows. They don't see a problem with it because they KNOW us and know Mogrod1 and ALL the past that comes with everything. Unlike any of you.
What the he11 is a lovebuster?? More cult lingo??
I suppose my emotional affair is not the norm. It did not thrive in secracy,exposing was something I did long ago!!
if you dont want me to view you as stupid ppl, then please get ALL of facts and truths before you offer advice.
You mention Harley's article a lot, tell me. Why is it perfect because it has worked for some ppl. Not everyone is the same.
I do not know the dream person, I didn't even waste time reading it. I thought it is funny how parinod everyone is about imposters. Hilarious really.

It is in Mogrod's best interest to be honest w/ us.

If he chooses to be dishonest, he does so at his own peril.

But, judging from your first post, where you took your best shot at discrediting him and painting him as a lousy H, I'm going to have to go w/ the belief that he hasn't been dishonest w/ us.

Nor has he done anything in your M that is worthy of your having committed adultry.



I'd be willing to bet that you didn't expose the TRUTH. Only your spin on what happened.

Rewrote you M history, painted Mo in the worst possible light, and told folks how miserable OMW is to him.

Am I getting warm?


I didn't know we were required to meet your needs....or get your approval before we shared our thoughts w/ your BH.

Are you always this controlling?


This is what is called rewriting marital history.

And it is what every wayward does in order to justify having an A.


Yes, he does.

You are on a path of destruction and you are bringing your son along w/ you.

You are not thinking clearly about your BH, your son, or your M.

If you were, you'd know that destroying two familes is NOT in your son's best interest....or yours.

End your A, commit to no contact, get through your w/drawals from OM, and then you will begin to see things more clearly.

his name is mOgrod1, at least get it right. I will not discuss his actions or his history or family history with you ppl. I am on here to let you know that you NEED ALL facts before you start to help ppl. none of you are professional, personal friends, or family. What in God's name do you know?? Understand that this site may be great for all of you recovered ppl, but it does not work for everyone. Mogrod1 and I have a mountain of history problems, that go back to 2002. Now when I met and then got engaged to him one month later, he and I were kids. We both grew up and he too has mentioned that neither of us are they ppl we met. We grew up and disciovered who we really are, not meant for eachother? possible. But that is for us to decide, not a bunch of computer junkies that have nothing better to do that advice ppl they don't even know from Adam.

Yep, I did keep a spotless house, just ask Mogrod1. I kept him very happy, from household to bedroom, wife to mother. Ask him how I was repaid!!

So mogrods_other you are the perfect one that grew apart from him and had an affair.

He did all the wrong by neglecting you and growing as well?

Somehow you seem to make him the bad person when you are the one that commited adultery?

Mrs. MogRod:

You wrote -


So far, you have demonstrated the same predictable characteristics. Demonizing your betrayed husband. rewriting your marital history, showing intense anger over something you have chosen to do and taking that anger out on your husband, etc.

Agreed, there are things MogRod could have done to improve your marriage, but he is NOT responsible for your choice to betray him as a response to your unhappiness in the marriage.

To cheat in a marriage does not solve marriage problems, it only makes them much much worse, and destroys people in the process. People like your husband and beloved son.

Please know Mrs. MogRod, we have your marriage's best interest at heart when we support MogRod.


God Bless

wow, your a firecracker know-it-all aren't ya??
More assumptions that Mogrod1 was honest..cool believe what you want, He and I know the truth.
I didn't need to expose the truth, my circle knows me so well that they saw for thier own eyes the whole truth about H , even about the OM
Yep, I am controlling...get over it
How do you know what is rewritten..were you in my home or my bedroom, nope..paint a picture of your own life and get off mine
Again, do you know me, how do you know the A is still going on, MAYBE I just don't want to go back to he11 because I know what is was really like there!!

what is all this rewriting marital history? Do any of you know me for God's sake? You do not know what history my marraige has and if I had time to write a book you would, not to mention its NOYB!

Again, ask him if he was perfect when it comes to cheating!

Mogrod1,

Drop this ****EDIT**** ASAP.

If it is NOourB then why did you get on here to talk down on your husband.

When you marry someone you marry them for sickness and health and for better or worse.

If you are truly living in he11 with your H then maybe you should get out. Based on everything that he has said and has been trying to do he maybe feels there is still hope.

It must be a hard situation to be in.

Your "circle" accepts adultery as a way of life for a married woman and mother? No wonder you are so angry and defensive.

Instead of pounding the keys in defensiveness, read any, I repeat, any of the stories that make up this infidelity forum. You will find your exact same situation. Just insert yours and BH's name. That is why we all know your history. You are not special. You have not found your "soul mate." You are just an irresponsible wife and mother willing to cause her H and DS incredible trauma to fullfill your own selfish needs.

I pray you stick around long enough to get help. Do some reading on this site. Thousands of marriages way worse than yours have been saved by humbling themselves to the proven concepts. In spite of your protesting, you are no different.

God's Blessings,

Say

Wow! Someone get me some popcorn.

This is so interesting to see the wayward babble in action.

Something for everyone to learn.

Perhaps mogrod's wife will one day come back out of this fog and look back on her behavior and learn something as well.

How sad that you surround yourself with people who care so little for you and your son that they can sit by and watch while you degrade and demean yourself by carrying on a filthy adulterous affair. I feel sorry for you.

If my grown son acted so trashy, there would be he11 to pay because I love him too much to sit by idly while he degrades himself. You dishonor your son by bringing him into your sleazy affair and forcing him to watch his mother behave like a sleaze. That is parental abuse.

And I would suggest to mogrod that he drive over to the OMW's house and speak to her personally. You might want to also contact all of Mrs modrods so called family and friends and make sure they know the truth. Adulterers always lie and spin the facts.

Do you know how to read? Go back to the other posts. OMW does know, Everyone knows!!
Your right adulteers always lie, just ask Mogrod1 how he justifies things he has lied about

WHO says the OMW knows?

Maybe the fact I have spoken to her!!!!

And even so, so what? mogrod still needs to speak to her so they can compare notes and gather evidence of adultery for any potential legal action. They can be great allies!

I don't know where you live, but here in Texas, adultery can be brought into evidence and can have a huge bearing on custody, asset division, etc. They would each want to call you adulterers into court to give testimony on the stand about the affair. Texas judges don't take kindly to ADULTERY and dragging little kids into affairs!

What state ya in??

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