Hey Chris... just checking on my post; didn't expect to see an actual answer from you! Glad the youngest is doing well, at least. Good improvement from the older update. Sorry it's only half the story with your girls.

So how *are* you doing personally, Chris... I still remember your pics from your yearly trek to Grand Tetons, and too many thoughts, posts and details to mention.

For me... have two teenagers now... Boys who are doing very well themselves. I need to remind myself more to be thankful that a short attention span is a very small problem to have to deal with.

And... I'm getting married in June.

T/J:
Who_Dat:
I saw your signature... Interesting... We have a poster currently who has been snowed under by the RESENTMENT devil. I refer to MindMonkey over on the Recovery thread. Do you have any words of wisdom for him?

catwhit:
Sorry; I obviously don't get on here all that often any longer. I looked in on your MindMonkey pal, and yep; he's doing more damage to his marriage than his wife did. Not sure there's much I (or anyone) could really do though, for a couple reasons... first, he seems hell-bent on his path, and secondly, the forums have changed a lot over the years since I was really active (under the "WhoDat" nick without the "_", should you be curious... although several thousand posts were lost in the Great Crash of 2000/2001). My "style" (such as it was) is a lot more in-your-face than is allowed any longer. This is a tough row we are all hoeing, and it requires discarding some social niceties at times to get through to people. This is no longer allowed.

I do hope that he and all who are struggling in the aftermath of this betrayal can learn from the experience... I know I did, (even though I was coming from the other side), but for the most part, it must be learned by experiencing it firsthand.