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Isn't a 2x4 when and where needed part of the process?

Revera?...


BH(me): 40ish
FWW:(ILMH) 28yo
DS 3yo
Married 7yrs
Together 10 yrs

??? Spring '07 - Adultery Begins
8/25/07 - 1st D-day (week of our anniv.)
8/07 thru 5/08 - About a dozen D-days/Gaslighting/Flaunting/Fake Recoveries

She finally quit on...

1/1/08 - First real NC attempt(Maybe?)
3/1/08 - Told me OM is an A**hole.(Hope?)
5/3/08 - D-day (Admitted to PA once)
5/4/08 - Latest D-day(Finally confessed to multiple EA/PA in our home)
5/8/08 - Present
Struggling to hold on

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Originally Posted by TryTooHard
Isn't a 2x4 when and where needed part of the process?

Revera?...

No. Apparently we are too encourage their behavior and baby talk them into stopping their totaly screwing their spouse and children!

I have zero tolerance for a wayward still effing the OM/W while pretending to seek help here!

Step 1- Stop effing around!

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Sorry guys, heated, productive discussions are fine; personal attack fests ARE NOT! Nor is this the forum to promote affairs.

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Thanks much, Revera


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