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That's the ones, thanks Pepper......  Anger, somehow for some that is the hardest one to work through. Don't know why it just is. But when it happens, oh goodness....  especially difficult to work through if we are angry at G_d for allowing something to hurt us ....
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T/J
I'm not angry at G-d. I know why he allowed this to happen. I was afraid of my anger because it had been something that became out of control and if I was becoming a new person then surely anger needed to be gone as well.
Not very reasonable, but it was what it was.
At least now, I allow the anger to just be and ask G-d to walk me through how to react. That's the change inside.
T/J over... sorry Brown.
BS 52, FWH 53, Married 1-1-84
D-day 5-14-07, WH moved in with OW
Plan A 9 months, DARK Plan B 3-17-08 until 3-2-09
WH and OW broke up 1-09
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I was talkin' 'bout my own anger Queenie
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BS 52, FWH 53, Married 1-1-84
D-day 5-14-07, WH moved in with OW
Plan A 9 months, DARK Plan B 3-17-08 until 3-2-09
WH and OW broke up 1-09
Started over 7-09
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nawwwwwwwwwww I was not clear
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BS 52, FWH 53, Married 1-1-84
D-day 5-14-07, WH moved in with OW
Plan A 9 months, DARK Plan B 3-17-08 until 3-2-09
WH and OW broke up 1-09
Started over 7-09
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Guys
Going into Plan B - what do I about the divorce papers........inclined to withdraw.
Married 6 yrs
No children
A started in Dec 07
I found out Feb 08
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"Going into Plan B - what do I about the divorce papers........inclined to withdraw."
SIGN 'em Brown. Your husband does not want to be with you and he is not coming back to ever live with you again. You need to start facing the facts.
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What's the NEW DEVELOPMENTS that led you to this decision?
I made it happen..a joyful life..filled with peace, contentment, happiness and fabulocity.
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Hi Mimi
I see WH wavering, after his initial outburst on the tumour, he explained that he was terrified (no excuse but there is the the wayside mind for you)
He has been supportive, but obviously hasn't left her. Yesterday i tried speaking to her - bcos he feels that in part he is in love with her but also in part that he would agree to a reconciliation but she emotionally blackmails him.
She has said point blank she won't let go, no remorse, just pure selfishness. (No surprise there!)
Married 6 yrs
No children
A started in Dec 07
I found out Feb 08
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Hi Brown,
How are you doing physically?
BS 52, FWH 53, Married 1-1-84
D-day 5-14-07, WH moved in with OW
Plan A 9 months, DARK Plan B 3-17-08 until 3-2-09
WH and OW broke up 1-09
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Physically....I am tired, started the tablets last week. Had one this weekend, and been throwing up, feeling dizzy and the headaches in the morning are a killer. But the alternative is worse, and am hoping with time i will get used to it. Will just have to wait n see. That's why i haven't been online much.
How u been?
Married 6 yrs
No children
A started in Dec 07
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