I can't figure out how to post in your thread (keep getting a file not found error message).

"I would have to guess he is not involved in an affair already, because I found a profile he has on a singles site this morning. That hurts alot, finding that. And his pic is one of him with our DS when he was still a baby. I'm guessing it might be where some of the new numbers in the phone log are coming from.

I am tempted to send the profile link to his mother. Should I?"

Yes. It might also be a good idea to give the web address of his online singles ad to the two women he's been text-messaging too. He probably IS involved with one or both of them and exposing his online trolling could end the adultery sooner.