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I respectfully request some of you to post to VL22. I am currently the only one who's posting to her. Her post can be located at the link below:

A never ending Affair!

Thanks.

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Do I have to call specific names?

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BEST ADVISOR/BA/STILLSAME/COMPUTERS

- I know who you are. You are a disgrace of a human being - I wanted to come to MB to post my situation ~ but I am too scared to now because I know that you will come after me like you did on "the other" forum. You're style of writing makes you stick out a mile - why dont you leave people ALONE ~ you have no sound advice to give to them ~ and you are going to cause people here that are going through horrendous and traumatic experiences MORE pain ~ just like you did to me. I hope that Justuss and the other moderators work out who you are and BAN you ~ you are a disgrace


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Zaffy......I am assuming you are the same Zaffy who could not find links in the Success Stories thread so you posted on the Technical Support forum. This is amazing ..... I don't post much but you came to mind last night and I prayed for you.

If you want, email me at Ace_in_bucket@yahoo.com


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Hi Acey!! (Waving from down Texas). Good to see ya!

/TJ


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Thank you SO MUCH Ace for your prayers. Yes it is me. I have just emailed you.

Zaffy

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ACE

I have had a mail delivery error message come back to me saying that my email could not be delivered to you. Did you get it? I am in the UK so would that make any difference in sending?


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Originally Posted by Zaffy
BEST ADVISOR/BA/STILLSAME/COMPUTERS

- I know who you are. You are a disgrace of a human being - I wanted to come to MB to post my situation ~ but I am too scared to now because I know that you will come after me like you did on "the other" forum. You're style of writing makes you stick out a mile - why dont you leave people ALONE ~ you have no sound advice to give to them ~ and you are going to cause people here that are going through horrendous and traumatic experiences MORE pain ~ just like you did to me. I hope that Justuss and the other moderators work out who you are and BAN you ~ you are a disgrace

What's all this about? I'm confused. crazy


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There is a history of a troll on the MB boards by the name of BestAdvisor, or "BA".

A very long history. The troll appears to have an ISP that is mobile, making it difficult to completely block him from the board. So he returns under various usernames, despite the repeated attempts by the moderators to ban him. Zaffy is accusing TrustDoe of being BA.

Others agree with Zaffy.

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TD, have you posted here under a different name in the past?

If so, and you wish to be a trusted member of this board, now would be the time to come clean.

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Zaffy is accusing TrustDoe of being BA.

Others agree with Zaffy.

Me too.


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Originally Posted by medc
TD, have you posted here under a different name in the past?

If so, and you wish to be a trusted member of this board, now would be the time to come clean.

I guess NO ANSWER truly answers the question.

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Originally Posted by medc
Originally Posted by medc
TD, have you posted here under a different name in the past?

If so, and you wish to be a trusted member of this board, now would be the time to come clean.

I guess NO ANSWER truly answers the question.

Bingo!

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You are BRAND new to the board and you think you can spot a good guy from a troll? In looking at your two posts, you are already fitting the profile of BA (advice without history or your own story)...how many times do you need to be asked to stay away? You really need to get professional help. Your obsession with this board is unhealthy and needs attention.

If you aren't BA, I apologize and suggest you post your own story before you start giving advice to others.

HTM


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Three sons...4, 5, and 7.
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Looks like BA has a new name to add to his list..."Reviewer."

Thank you Mods for working hard to keep things safe. This has got to be challenging.

BA, I really hope that you can find the help you need. You sound like an intelligent person who is just misguided and obsessed. I hope the best for you (but I also hope the Mods keep finding your new aliases...it's not healthy to have you here).

HTM


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Three sons...4, 5, and 7.
06/04 EA begins (Unknown to me).
02/10/05 D-Day EA (Unknown PA).
02/24/08 D-Day LTA 3+ YEARS! (same OW).


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So how sure are we that TD is BA?

Just worried given who TD gives 'advice' to


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lildoggie,

We're nigh-on to positive, babe.

SB

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