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#2102884 08/02/08 04:36 PM
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I am having trouble with BA. BTW...he has all but admitted that he is still online here under at least one alias (Reviewer and Trustdoe, I think).

He had emailed me a long time ago with a request to send a message to someone here. I obliged as I had no quarrel with him. He continued to email me a few times...just basic chat about what's going on in my life. Then I realized that he was a single guy and told him that I didn't feel comfortable with conversing with another man in private. He said he understood but felt like he hadn't said/done anything inappropriate (which he hadn't). Nonetheless, I asked him to stop emailing me.

He didn't. He wrote me a few more times requesting I post to someone here and there on the board. So I sent him a very clear NC Letter and requested that he not email me again. I also had his emails sent directly to the trash (there is no blocking feature on gmail).

Well, I went to empty the trash today and there he is again. And this time is using the insult that I am just "following the masses" here on MB to ridicule him. He also questioned my kindness and said that maybe my friend was right to end our friendship.

BA, I know that you read my thread. So this is for you...I will not be bullied by you. There are reasons that you have been banned from this site OVER AND OVER AGAIN. I may not know all of the reasons, but I do know that the people here are trying to protect the needs of those of us seeking help on this board.

You do not belong here. You are not wanted here. You have hurt people here...some to the point of them quitting the site altogether. You admit that you are not struggling with infidelity in your own life. WHY do you feel you are justified in acting in such a manner that you jeopardize the lives of people who ARE struggling?

You are either mean or mentally ill. I tend to believe the latter. You need to ask yourself WHY this board is SO IMPORTANT to you. Is it really HEALTHY for you to be here? Especially when you have been asked over and over to leave.

HTM


BW 37 (Me).
F?WH 35.
06/97 Married.
Three sons...4, 5, and 7.
06/04 EA begins (Unknown to me).
02/10/05 D-Day EA (Unknown PA).
02/24/08 D-Day LTA 3+ YEARS! (same OW).


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Let's leave speculation about who BA's ID's might be. If you suspect a poster of being BA, please notify the moderators.


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