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Is that not a criminal offence? Did you charge her? Yes I did and the judge (the one who gave my house away to her) chalked it up as "heat of the moment" anger. OUCH! And another OUCH! after looking at those photos of your boo-boo! And I must admit I didn't feel any sympathy for your WXW when I read that her fantasy fun is crashing. IMHO reality has it's own way of getting even...
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I think I am the statistic that has been abused beyond rehabilitation for forgiveness and releasing the vendetta.
It's my demon and I can live with it.
I watch, and am as a sparrow alone upon the house top.
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OWH is a nice man, looks good and is the kind of person I would consider dating or even marrying. I would never have an affair with him or anyone else simply because I would never be involved in an affair after I have experienced being a BS.
But I do dream about revenge on OW. Mostly it is about having people around her talk about her and look down upon her. I exposed the affair at her workplace but I suspect that if people knew all the nasty details they would be shocked. My revenge dreams are about her colleagues looking at her thinking "Did she really do that? Here in the meeting room? In her CAR in the parking lot?" Why not provide those nasty details? I'd even make up a few. Tempting. But what purpose would it serve? The affair has been public, all signs now indicate that it is ending. If I would do anything like that people would think that I am a crazy b**** who does it for revenge. Of course OW would look bad but so would I.
Last edited by why_us; 08/12/08 06:24 AM.
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