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#2106367 08/08/08 08:15 AM
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Can anyone help me , i think i am going mad. My husband had an affair with my so called friend, she got pregnant and he says he felt trapped as she refused ato take morning after pill so the lie continued. Did not want me to find out - baby due in four weeks. He says he has ended the affair ,and by the texts i have recieved he has. He wants to stay with me ,but the thought of him having a child out there kills me. I cannot continue with this as i feel so hurt i could curl up and die. He is clearly distraught at seeing me this way, and the stupid thing is i feel sorry for him.

Shandy, welcome to MB. I am so sorry for the circumstances that bring you here. It is exactly what brought me to MB, my H getting the OW pg. OC is now about 3.5 years old and we are NC. Unfortunately pregnancy and subsequent OC often makes the A harder to end or results in the A restarting. Must be guilt and a the OW using the child as bait because it is so common.

Tell us more about your M. How long married? Any COM (children of the marriage?) How long was the A? When did it end? Did he confess or did you find out? Is the OW married or single?

I won't be around most of the day but hopefully others will be along to post to you as well.

(((shandy)))


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me: FWW/BS 52 H: FWH/BS 49
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what about WH what are his thoughts on OC?


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