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Iam I clueless?
#2110148 08/14/08 06:33 PM
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Our marriage has lived through almost 30 years of everything from financial stuff to Alcohol/drugs, domestic violence.

He is gone again today said he had to run some some errands.
He never leaves with any thng or comes back with anything.

We do have need of marriage counseling both need to give emotional and physical needs to each other,

Should I ask my question of where he really goes. Or do I need more information. If he not having affair it would just hurt our marriage even more

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Re: Iam I clueless?
imherestill #2110685 08/15/08 04:52 PM
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Trust your instincts. Use some tools to gather more evidence as he may not answer you directly. There are several options (e.g. hiring a PI).

BS(me) - 40
FWH - 36

6 years of discovery.
Now - one day at a time....
Re: Iam I clueless?
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Always trust you instincts. Always. I'm so sorry for your pain.
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imherestill #2110908 08/16/08 11:27 AM
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Shrek's Swamp
Originally Posted by imherestill
domestic violence.

Really? Please elaborate.

Pep

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