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#2112021 08/18/08 06:12 PM
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Geesh...I made a mistake talking with BA once. I had to block him from my email because he couldn't understand that I was not interested in his opinion.

Now, I put a new email up for 10 minutes so that someone here can reach me, and he is writing again with "sage" wisdom.

HOW DO I GET RID OF HIM?


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Please forward a copy of the email(s) in question to JustUss.

JustUss2@aol.com

Thank you.
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Did it. Hope it helps.

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MogiSola #2112087 08/18/08 07:36 PM
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Now, I put a new email up for 10 minutes so that someone here can reach me, and he is writing again with "sage" wisdom.

Wow! That is SCARY quick, Mogi! This dude has such an unhealthy obsession with MB! Maybe someone should physically track him down and have a talk with him. I think he really needs help.

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Now why doesn't he ever wanna play with me? laugh


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Originally Posted by Pariah
Now why doesn't he ever wanna play with me? laugh

rotflmao rotflmao

Seriously, it is scary. Too obsessive.

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Originally Posted by Pariah
Now why doesn't he ever wanna play with me? laugh

I'm a little intimidated by your name...you know, it's always the outcasts who end up being the serial killers. kiss

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I thought it was quick too.

I'm not afraid of this guy, but he's a major nuisance.

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MogiSola #2112215 08/19/08 07:30 AM
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Originally Posted by MogiSola
Geesh...I made a mistake talking with BA once. I had to block him from my email because he couldn't understand that I was not interested in his opinion.

Now, I put a new email up for 10 minutes so that someone here can reach me, and he is writing again with "sage" wisdom.

HOW DO I GET RID OF HIM?

Maybe you could stop posting your e-mail address?

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Originally Posted by iam
Maybe you could stop posting your e-mail address?

Hmmm...I guess that would work. But it would be such an EASY fix. :RollieEyes:


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Originally Posted by MogiSola
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Maybe you could stop posting your e-mail address?

Hmmm...I guess that would work. But it would be such an EASY fix. :RollieEyes:

I'm gonna ask you something that will probably piss you off but I just have to.

Does this stalking 'do something' for you? Are you into it?

Here's why I ask....

You know someone here stalks you, yet you post your e-mail.

You know someone here stalks you so you change your ID and childishly post you old ID backwards (like who couldn't figure that out?)

Does not seem like the actions of someone who wants this stalking to cease.

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I changed my ID so that my H would not be able to find my new thread. It had nothing to do with BA. I hadn't heard from him in almost a month and thought that he had quit bugging me.

I posted my previous name backwards so that the people here who read more than one thread (i.e. NOT my H) would know where I went. And so that my H couldn't just google my username and find my new thread.

Honestly, I thought that BA was done being a jerk to me. I posted my email for ten minutes to get in touch with another poster who was going to TALK with me on the phone...I didn't think that the chance I was taking was that great. Apparently I was wrong.

I'm not pissed off about your question...but the insinuation that I "enjoy" the attention seems a bit misguided. I was just trying to let others here know that BA is still lurking, even if we don't know it or catch him and to be carful.

As far as I'm concerned...his emails are just a nuisance to me and I have them going into the trash.

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iam #2112385 08/19/08 11:05 AM
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childishly post you old ID backwards

Have you read up on DJs? This is a big one in my book.

I appreciate criticism, but only when it is constructive.

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What? You are actually reading the e-mails then printing them out, and throwing them in the trash or e-mail trashing them? Why not just BLOCK them from ever coming in in the first place. Anything else is encouraging to them.

And if you want someone's number, ask them to post it. Or post thier e-mail. For one second. That is all. Then they can erace it.

I stay away from personal communication on these boards. I have maybe one person i have communicated with and that is rare.

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OK, whatever.


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Who is BA?


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Here is something constructive for you.

END THIS THREAD AND QUIT GOING ON AND ON. THE MORE YOU DWELL ON THIS THE MORE OF A VICTIM YOU APPEAR AND THE MORE THEY WILL BOTHER YOU. YOU ARE IDENTIFYING YOURSELF MORE AND MORE AS YOU GO ON AND ON ABOUT THIS ISSUE!!!

PLEASE STOP AND BACK OFF AND PROTECT YOURSELF WITH BLOCKERS ON YOUR COMPUTER.

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keyboards are like opinions around here wink

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I don't get it. I for one appreciate knowing that our snivelly little stalker is so obsessive that he grabs info that's only been up for 10 minutes. I think the admin. needs to know what they are dealing with!

Not sure why we are attacking the messenger!

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Why not just BLOCK them from ever coming in in the first place.

My email program doesn't have a "Block" setting so I just have it set with a filter so that it goes to the trash automatically. I just noticed that he had emailed me when I went in to empty my trash manually. I don't usually do that...it just does it automatically.


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