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Hi,

I reported 6 or 7 trolls so far today. You can help also. Watch out Trolls!!! We will flush ya out.

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Dea, you are famous around these parts! If I am too blatant, I will get slapped with a fine! LOL

All I can say is I reported over 10 people I think are trolls today. Maybe I am paranoid but i hate wasting time on people who are not real.

Famous or infamous???

Okay. kiss

I got my back up, sorry. Been having OW troubles here. Tis the nature of a dna donor, I think. I do NOT want anyone to have to deal with an OW for the rest of their lives if I can help it.


I never had to take the Kobayashi Maru test until now. What do you think of my solution?

O'hana means family, and family means nobody gets left behind or forgotten.

My Story

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Dealan, I used to want to PUNCH out your husband for you. At times I wanted to yell at you and tell you to dump him outta your life like a dead dry crispy rat. Other times I wanted you to cut him off like moldy cheese.

But you seemed to have roped him in and coralled him finally I dont know how you did it. Maybe he is now too old to cheat like before!

I respect YOU, girl! And I agree with all the advice you give others. Maybe you had to go thru that crap in order to help hundreds of other people, who knows!

You are my hero,

Barb

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Actually, the change happened once I changed the way I reacted to him (as Ark, and Pep, and Mel, and Starfish used to tell me it would...but I thought we were special...turned out we were just speshul).

He changed because I did first. I would not deal with the ca-ca anymore...and once I put my foot down, his change was pert near overnight.

There is nothing SPECIAL about infidelity...every story, every detail has been done to death a million times....so much so that everything the adultrers say and do is per a book, and every fear a betrayed has is by a book.

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Dealan, I used to want to PUNCH out your husband for you.

The line was over there (pointing)...see how long it was? All those people in line to punch a Wookie...pert near spanned the globe. See? I can see your spot...right behind YellowLine and Weaver. Maybe the grass will grow back by next year?

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Maybe he is now too old to cheat like before!

Hey! He's younger than ME!

Who you callin' old?

More like he wised up and once he did his life got better in a million different ways.


I never had to take the Kobayashi Maru test until now. What do you think of my solution?

O'hana means family, and family means nobody gets left behind or forgotten.

My Story

Recovered!

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