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keepitreal #2112424 08/19/08 11:52 AM
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Originally Posted by keepitreal
I don't get it. I for one appreciate knowing that our snivelly little stalker is to obsessive that he grabs info that's only been up for 10 minutes. I think the admin. needs to know what they are dealing with!

Not sure why we are attacking the messenger!

Thanks KIR...

I did what I set out to do. I just wanted people here to be aware that he's still actively reading.

I'm done with this now.

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Originally Posted by keepitreal
I don't get it. I for one appreciate knowing that our snivelly little stalker is so obsessive that he grabs info that's only been up for 10 minutes. I think the admin. needs to know what they are dealing with!

Not sure why we are attacking the messenger!

Thanks KIR...

I did what I set out to do. I just wanted people here to be aware that he's still actively reading.

I'm done with this now.

MS

Hang in there and be careful!

keepitreal #2112446 08/19/08 12:21 PM
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Anyone gonna fill me in on who BA is?


"Rather than love, than money, than fame, give me truth"

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introvert #2112456 08/19/08 12:35 PM
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Originally Posted by introvert
Anyone gonna fill me in on who BA is?

BA (Best Advisor)is a guy who apparently started out on this forum doing research for something he was doing in school that related to infidelity. He subsequently finished the research and just stayed. People were pretty upset that he had done this to begin with.

He has used MANY usernames (like 20-somthing) and has been banned by the Mods countless times. He still continues to read the threads and try to get back into the forum

He is self-professed pro-marriage and gives advice to all. However, he is young and single...has no life experience with infidelity and refuses to share his story with the forum.

He has "stalked" several women on this site to the point of running them off. I have heard that he has done this on other sites as well.

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Can you say LOSER ???????


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Yeah, I may be ignorant, but I don't really see him as a "threat" as much as a pain in the rear.

Pathetic.

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MogiSola #2112470 08/19/08 12:56 PM
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FWIW, I don't buy the "school research" story.

BA is just a mentally twisted troll who gets off on becoming involved in others' misery. crazy

IMHO, of course.

keepitreal #2112617 08/19/08 03:46 PM
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Originally Posted by keepitreal
FWIW, I don't buy the "school research" story.

BA is just a mentally twisted troll who gets off on becoming involved in others' misery. crazy

IMHO, of course.

Hmmm...

It was suggested by Chrisner that I had "shades of BA" some time back. Thank you all for clearing up what that meant. Obviously this is not a desirable connotation.

Curiously, this guy BA's story of "school research" is a little similar to my own:

I dream of writing a novel based in reality rather than the ghastly romance stories that folk refer to as "the truth". I Googled the word "infidelity" and sort of wandered out here.

I mostly post on the Loveshack site but refer people to this one in order to read Dr Harley's most excellent articles. I see this as a ministry to those that are hurting.

...But maybe I am a troll and just don't know it yet!

Last edited by imagine; 08/19/08 03:48 PM.

But I, being poor, have only my dreams; I have spread my dreams under your feet; Tread softly because you tread on my dreams -Yeats
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