We played this game when I was pg with my oldest. During my shower all of the ladies from my mil's church group wrote a bit of advice down for me. They helped me through all my kids and I still have every scrap of paper in Z's baby book.

My advice is to listen to your baby. He doesn't speak to your ears. He speaks to your heart, and your heart will always tell you what he needs.

God made created you both so that you both understand each other. Sometimes you have to silence your worries and be still to LISTEN to your child.

You'll know what is needed. You'll just know.


I never had to take the Kobayashi Maru test until now. What do you think of my solution?

O'hana means family, and family means nobody gets left behind or forgotten.

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