I just realized that today is the anniversary of the day I first registered to post here. 9/03/03

it has been 5 years since my first posting. Wow.

In some ways, it feels like 20 years ago.

Reading here, and posting, I have learned so much. My new M is so much better, because of the lessons I have learned.

if I could share the one thing that really sticks out today, it is this:

I have learned, that we are all basically the same. Men and women, WS and BS. We all want to feel loved, safe, appreciated. We want to feel like the person we are with loves us a bunch!! and appreciates us, and will stay with us for life. even a WS - many times the wayward is fearful of returning to the M because what if their BS is just going to turn around, and dump them?

whether we are movie stars, truck drivers, marriage counselors, pastors, teachers, you name it. We all want to be loved, cherished, appreciatied, and safe.