I have hardly any contact with H. Had to stop as he is very angry, blames me for the A and basically hates me-I don't know why.

So would a Plan B work if we hardly talk and most communication is via email and he has not stated he wants the marriage? He told me he loved her.

After everything was exposed(to me, kids and I exposing to OW fiance) he came home. Within 2 weeks he went back, lied and I had to have some one follow him and get pictures as he would not admit to me he had gone back. After that world war 2, he was very angry blaming me and could not understand why kids didn't want to speak to him. Soooo since we rarely communicate except via email due to financial reasons can a Plan B work?

My other posts are under Infidelity: Questions II Newby-Advice-Husband moved in with OW. Any advice welcome.

Last edited by Trying2live; 09/07/08 12:41 AM.
Me-39 H-38/Married 19years/DD18 & DS10
Dday EA/PA 4/23/08 Left home 5/08/08
Moved in w/Sea Hag 08/01/08
Read SAA Sept 08 Plan A 10/03/08 thru 11/15/08
Plan B 11/15/08-currently
01/18/09 Plan B crack w/phone call restating PBL
01/31/09 Planned brief contact
02/15/09 Delivery of Planned 2nd PBL
Filed for D Dec 2009 Recovering well!