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Hi!

I have found something new that it seems could be useful.

www.maps.google.com

When it comes up, type in an address in the search box at the top. A map will come up and possibly, a photograph on top of the map. If there is a photo, click on the words "street view" in the photo box. The photo will become larger. You will see that you can navigate 360 degrees. Move north, south, east, west, zoom in and out. Pretty self-explanatory when you see it.

It seems like they only have photographs in large cities and their suburbs right now.

It's actually VERY scary.

I typed in OW's address and the picture came right up.

However, *I* live in a small town and mine only came up as a map without a photo.

Another way of finding the site is to type "google maps" (without the quotation marks) into a search engine.

The addresses are only approximate but they're VERY close.

I was shocked. I guess this can be both good and bad but I definitely think it might help if spying is necessary.

WH2LE

A semen detection kit is an excellent way to gather physical evidence. Generally, these kits look for a couple of marker proteins found in semen: acid phosphatase (AP) and prostate specific antigen (PSA). The AP test (like CheckMate) is quick, but only presumptive since there can be false positives. The PSA test is much more sensitive and specific, able to identify semen with 100% accuracy at a dilution of 1/1,000,000. This technology is used worldwide by forensics labs to identify the presence of semen in a suspicious stain.

These kits are readily available on the Internet by doing a search on "semen detection kit." As mentioned before, there are two kinds, based on either AP or PSA tests, but one kit has both, the InSite semen detection kit: http://insitekit.com/ . This kit is sort of unusual in that it contains 25 strips, whereas most others only have one.

Sometimes it can take a while to catch her, so you have to be persistent. Once you have the evidence, then confront her. There's only one way semen can get on her underwear (assuming you haven't had sex in 3 days), and that's from another man.

Here's a GPS tracking device that a friend brought to my attention. (Don't know if this one was already linked in or not):


GPS Stick

With any device, temper your NEED/ZEAL to acquire the information with caution to avoid getting caught. Sometimes you just have to forego obtaining the information if it's too risky.

Good luck,

Mr. Wondering

Yep, sometimes I had to leave the recorder in the car for days before I could retrieve it or wait until she went shopping and get it when she was in the store.

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Ok heres a reverse for everyone. Anyone know how to find out if my laptop is being spied on by someone?

Cali,

With only one post to your credit... Why do you ask?

I suspect Google would provide you all the information needed.

-JKT

Cali - No offense meant, but you may want to post your story before asking this question.

FWIW, I would imagine many here would be reluctant to advise on how to get around snooping. Most here believe that it is acceptable to have their computer monitored by their spouse.

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Any tips for spying on a MAC?

I know Specter has one, but she found that when I had it on her PC. I used another but it doesn't have a MAC version.

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I figured out how to view all of the stuff that my H has deleted on his Blackberry. He doesn't seem to know about this function or I'm sure I wouldn't see half the stuff on there.

For everyone snooping on a Blackberry:

1. Select the "messages" icon (the picture of a mailbox on mine). If your spouse deletes everything it will say "No Messages."
2. Press the "Menu" button (the one with all of the squares on it). Select "View Folder." This will give you a list of folder options...Browser Messages, Missed Calls, MMS Inbox, MMS Outbox, Phone Call Logs, SMS Inbox, MSM Outbox...
3. Select the folder you want to view. It will show you all of the messages (even complete texts) back to a certain point. I haven't figured out how to choose how long the messages are saved in this archive. If anyone figures that out, please add it.

PS. Thanks saynomore for the bump.

I am wondering, where can you go and buy a keylogger for cash? I look online at Staples.com and OfficeDepot.com, and they don't list this kind of software. I was hoping I could walk into a local store like this.

How does everyone feel about spying? What if you spy, discover incriminating evidence that turns out to be innocent and thus create a problem?

I guess if you have a suspected WS there is something going on - you may have just caught it early.

What's the typical reaction of the spied upon spouse?

How does everyone feel about spying? What if you spy, discover incriminating evidence that turns out to be innocent and thus create a problem?


If your spouse isn't having an affair then they should feel about the same as you'd feel if she/he spied on you. No big deal. It only becomes a big deal when your spouse actually has something to hide and is vested in keeping secrets

I guess if you have a suspected WS there is something going on - you may have just caught it early.

What's the typical reaction of the spied upon spouse?

If they have secrets...they go nuts. You will get called controlling and they'll demand TRUST. They will attempt to gaslight you into believing YOU are the problem in the marriage and that your lack of trust is killing them. They will go into super-secret mode (sleeping with their cell-phone, passwords changed, staying out longer) and attempt to indicate YOU are the reason they need to do so.

If they are NOT guarding a secret, they may get slightly upset as they are unaccustomed to having their privacy invaded by their spouse. They may even have some ill-conceived notion that some individuality in marriage is important and you...THRU HEALTHY CONFLICT will get the opportunity to confront and address these barriers to intimacy in your marriage before it's too late. Remember...CONFLICT is significantly better than withdrawal. Do not fear conflict as nothing gets resolved when you conflict avoid

added: I hope you don't find anything but you'd be in a rare basket of persons that show up here on an infidelity board suspecting their spouse only to discover they are NOT having an affair. By the time people show up here and start posting their gut feelings are typically a pretty good indicator of the truth

Mr. Wondering

FYI

Frank Music no longer has the investagation services. He sold his company. The same numbers still gets you to a PI but they will not provide cell phone records.

I have a Blackberry Pearl and this does not work on it. I have the same icons and can slect "view folder" but anything that I have deleted does not still show up there. So be careful if you are counting on finding out about deleted info this way.

How about a good suggestion for a PI in Michigan?

An excellent people-finder website is veromi.com . With very basic info, you can usually find name, age, city/state, place of employment, and likely relatives and roommates. For free. You can get more information for a fee, though I've never done that. (Usually, with the info I've found on Veromi, I was able to use sites like anywho.com to track people down. (I used this method to find people who wrote bad checks to my store.))

Best of luck... sorry for the situation if you're having to use this.

Nicki