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#2126384 09/12/08 02:32 PM
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My husband had an afair with a co-worker almost 2 yrs ago, has lied to me several times concerning numbers found on his cell phone or the cell phone records on-line. I am going crazy and when I ask him about the numbers on the cell phone records he gets furious with me. I need help.
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creager23 #2126392 09/12/08 02:43 PM
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Does he still work with the OW?

Secondly, I would stop asking him about the #s on his cell phone and find out yourself what he is doing. Hire a PI, track the #s yourself, tap his phone, etc. But most of all, don't ask a LIAR for the truth! You won't get it and your questioning only teaches him your tactics so he can go further underground.

Just be a sleuth and find out on your own. When you have all the evidence, then TELL HIM, don't ASK, you know what he is doing.

You can check cell phone #s here: http://www.freecellphonetracer.com/index.php

"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt

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creager23 #2127201 09/14/08 11:49 PM
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He should not feel furious he should feel shame....He would not lie if there was not anything to hide. Cheaters lie. My wife has lied to me about phone records also. And when confronted always gets mad. All I can tell you is there are many people going through the same thing. Hang in there. I will pray for all of you:)
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MelodyLane #2127274 09/15/08 06:37 AM
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tap his phone

CAUTION: That is a felony under federal and most all state laws.

BH (me) age 55
FWW age 52
married 26 years
First DDay 2/23/08, 1 day after PA began, ~1-1/2 months after EA began
Multiple failed attempts at NC
confirmable NC since 1/23/09


(D 31; S 29) my first marriage
(D 27; S 25) her first marriage

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