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Originally Posted by Krazy71
I like to think that I'm intelligent enough to spot sarcasm when I see it, even if it's typed on a message board.

That was sarcasm, right?


Certainly is.

I just assumed that she'd answer "h3ll no"...then realize just how ridiculous the notion of "is it time for an affair?" really is.


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Are you legally married?

If yes, on what date where you mairried?

What type of service was it? (religiouse based, justice of the peace, ships captian, etc)

Is this relationship based off an affair from a previouse relationship?


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Raven 11, did you have an actual wedding ceremony where the marriage is recognized by the state? When did this take place?

I went through all of her posts because I had that same question. Unless she got married between August 16, 2008 and today, the answer is no. Since she's here posting about recent relationship troubles, it's unlikely that the marriage ever took place.

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Exactly. I noticed that too. It's highly doubtful that with all the previous posts about how desperately she wanted a real marriage, that she would fail to fill us in on an important point like that.

IMHO, either the whole thing is just her "playing" the MB members, or she is just not coming straight with us on certain details for some reason.

It would be respectful for her to tell it like it is, in order to receive the appropriate advice without a lot of time wasting extra junk.

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see the other posts or search under time warp 1.0

yeah, we are legally married, back dated to April 8, 2006.

doesn't mean I FEEL married till we get a ceremony of some kind, but maybe I'm just too demanding. shrug. smile

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Frankly, I'm just looking for some people to hang out with that are fun. RC and UA without the SF.

Would it be optimum if that RC and UA came from H? yeah sure. but I'm not going to count on it.



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Got married.

Unless you have gotten married since you signed on to MB this is a lie.

You have been posting about his REFUSAL to get married.

Can't be both.

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Originally Posted by raven11
see the other posts or search under time warp 1.0

yeah, we are legally married, back dated to April 8, 2006.

doesn't mean I FEEL married till we get a ceremony of some kind, but maybe I'm just too demanding. shrug. smile

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Frankly, I'm just looking for some people to hang out with that are fun. RC and UA without the SF.

Would it be optimum if that RC and UA came from H? yeah sure. but I'm not going to count on it.

This is not the first lie you've been caught in.

And btw, in reference to your absurdly CRUDE remark to black raven, that's not who asked for your phone number, and she's a LADY, so obviously in addition to keeping your little stories straight, you also have a problem with simple reading comprehension.

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This is not the first lie you've been caught in.

There have been numerous discrepancies throughout her posts.

I wouldn't believe a word she posted.

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