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e multiple partners question
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I have been reading this forum and notice most are talking about infidelity by spouses with one specific person. How do you overcome and begin to heal when the spouse has cheated with multiple people in a course of a month. We had a very good relationship emotionally and physically when I found out what he was doing. I am hurt,angry, confused and depressed. I go to a therapist and on AD meds. When will the pain and heartache go away.
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There are folks here whose spouses have had multiple As.

From what I've read here, many times, is that if your partner is a sex addict then the addiction has to be dealt with before the M can be rebuilt. I've read that you can't build an M when there is an addiction of any kind interfering with the M - porn, sex, drugs, alcohol, gambling.

The following information will help you get helpful responses:

How long have you been married?
Any kids?
How old are you both?
Do you both work?
Where does he meet the other people - and by "meet" I mean both how does he get introduced to them, and where does he go to spend time with them?
Does your H know you're aware of his activities?
If so, what is his response and what are his stated intentions regarding the M?

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Turtlehead is right, before you can work on a M the addiction needs to be dealt with. Get a book for your H to read called "Every Man's Battle." Sadly there is no cure for any addiction however it can be controlled. I hope your H will read this book and make changes so you can begin working on your M.

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