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Befoer I found this forum, I spent a lot of time at <A HREF="http://www.bestyears.com/midlifecrisis.htm" TARGET=_blank>http://www.bestyears.com/midlifecrisis.htm</A> <P>which helped me so much. For all of us going through our significant others midlife crisis it is well worth a visit.It helped keep me partly sane during the rollercoaster ride and most importantly helped me know that this had nothing to do with who I am and what i was doing wrong, no matter what I was justly and /or unjustly accused of. Hope it helps
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Ditto, also midlife.com, which is Jim Conway's site--source of great books on midlife/affairs/marriage to supplement what you get here.<P>Lizzie<P>------------------<BR>When you go through deep waters and great trouble, I will be with you. Isaiah 43:2<P><BR>
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The only problem with the bestyears site is that it is so depressing, because hardly any of the betrayers have come home. It seems like men in MLC are more likely than the average betrayer to file for divorce immediately and go full steam ahead into their "new" life - and they don't seem to come out of it in 6 months, or even a year.
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I don't want to hear anything about it taking more then 6 months or a year for my H to regain his senses. If what you found on the bestyears web site is truth then the only thing I have going for me is that he can't afford to file for divorce and think I should. Well, we all know how long it will take me to do that, as of now He!! will freeze over first. Are there any stats on men in midlife crisis coming to their senses and returning home and how long it takes? <P>------------------<BR>di<P>
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