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I believe someone already posted a request for a plan B letter, but I am in desperate need of one too! I read the book " How to Survive and Affair" and have the one in the book to look at. My situation is a little different in that I have been in Plan "A" for 9 months. I have been promised over and over that his A is over with no contact promised as well. Just found out that he has been in contact as recently as last Friday. The difference is that my WH does not want to move out; claims he loves me and wants to work on our marriage. Basically, he wants his cake and eat it too. I am planning on having the locks changed with his suitcases packed with a Plan "B" letter waiting. I know he will never change without this type of drastic measure. Anyone in the same situation that has drafted a letter where the WS does not want to leave, but you are forcing them to in order to stress that you will no longer take the lies and deception? Also, I need him to leave for my emotional health. I can't take it anymore. Any help is appreciated. Thank you!
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Hattie, I would suggest you get him out FIRST, then give him the Plan B letter. It won't do much good to give him a PBL and then he doesn't leave.
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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