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#2144773 10/20/08 01:31 AM
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My H has a bondage fetish. He is also in R for sexual addiction. I was wondering if anyone else has a spouse into this and if they feel it's a bad idea to allow it in the bedroom? Not porn. I don't allow that because I want to keep it all US. He seems to really be turned on by certain clothes, cuffs, rope etc. and loves for me to be into it. I don't really mind as long as it's not ALL the time and if he stay focused on me 100%.

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Variation can be fun. If it is contained between the two of you why not through it into the mix. Mix is the key word.

Also does he want to be the tyer or the tyee. If you don't like being tied but he does it would make it easier for you to do it for him.

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I guess it could give you the perfect excuse for beating the crap out of him.


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