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Re: Things that reall pi%# off a ww TryingToLetItGo #2148883 10/27/08 02:47 PM
Joined: Jun 2008 Posts: 1,277 SDF-1 G Gack1 Member
Gack1 Member G Joined: Jun 2008 Posts: 1,277 SDF-1	I think the thing that ticked my WW off the most was when I got a lawyer and had her send in an answer to my ww's divorce papers instead of just signing them. On top of that I had the audacity to counter her claim that awer marriage was "irreconsilable" Stating that It was my greatist wish to reconcile, and that I loved her. The day she recived the papers was the first time in almost 3 months that she called me. Boy was she mad!! 2 months later she withdrew the divorce. Still fogy, but making progress (sloooowwwly) Last edited by Gack1; 10/27/08 02:58 PM. Me 34 WW 30 Abandoned Feb 17th 08, D-Day Aprl 27th 08. Returned home Jul 7th, OC born 12/30/08 The FOG is clear, and we are in recovery.

Re: Things that reall pi%# off a ww TryingToLetItGo #2148891 10/27/08 03:06 PM
Joined: May 2008 Posts: 642 S sickwithworry Member
sickwithworry Member S Joined: May 2008 Posts: 642	TryingToLetItGo He was mad I had sex with him. Wow, that's one of the best I've ever heard. How inconsiderate of you to force him to do that. I think the 2 things I did that really angered my WW the most were: 1. Breathing 2. Have a heartbeat Drove her crazy.

Re: Things that reall pi%# off a ww sickwithworry #2148894 10/27/08 03:16 PM
Joined: Apr 2008 Posts: 4,698 New Zealand L lildoggie Member
lildoggie Member L Joined: Apr 2008 Posts: 4,698 New Zealand	Originally Posted by sickwithworry TryingToLetItGo He was mad I had sex with him. Wow, that's one of the best I've ever heard. How inconsiderate of you to force him to do that. I think the 2 things I did that really angered my WW the most were: 1. Breathing 2. Have a heartbeat Drove her crazy. Mine was fairly ticked the first time he cheated on OW with me. Went and sat outside, had a cigarette and some angst. 12 hours later, procedure repeated with no adverse ending :RollieEyes: In fact he initiated it. I remember being in Rarotonga with him ( about 6 months into his A and 2 months into my plan A) and he was in a poopy mood, I asked him if I had done something to annoy him, and he responded with "is there anything you have done that might have annoyed me"? I just said "somedays I think I don't need to do anything apart from exist to p1ss you off". Recovered marriage, recovering self, life gets better everyday

Re: Things that reall pi%# off a ww lildoggie #2148983 10/27/08 05:20 PM
Joined: Aug 2007 Posts: 132 S sl77 Member
sl77 Member S Joined: Aug 2007 Posts: 132	He was mad when he read what I've posted here.

Re: Things that reall pi%# off a ww sickwithworry #2148988 10/27/08 05:36 PM
Joined: Feb 2008 Posts: 514 T TryingToLetItGo Member
TryingToLetItGo Member T Joined: Feb 2008 Posts: 514	Originally Posted by sickwithworry TryingToLetItGo He was mad I had sex with him. Wow, that's one of the best I've ever heard. How inconsiderate of you to force him to do that. I think the 2 things I did that really angered my WW the most were: 1. Breathing 2. Have a heartbeat Drove her crazy. LOL... The thing that I think gets to waywards the most is when their spouse does not act like the horrible person they have created in their head. So when I had sex with him and it was great, I think it made him mad because he could not longer lie to himself and keep saying that he had no feelings for me and that he hadn't loved me in years. All those lies he told himself to justify his A all of a sudden where confronted with the truth that he did have feelings for me. This was the point where he said he felt like his head was in a blender. It was a real turning point for him. BW 38 (me) FWH 42 Married 7 years DD 6 SD 15 11-2006 H said he wanted a divorce and walked out 3-2007 I told H I wanted him back 3-2007 to 4-2007 D-day's 4-2007 H moved back in for good Today-In recovery, but a long way to recovered

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