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I can't seem to move on...
#2151868 11/01/08 09:58 PM
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STORY REMOVED DUE TO IGNORANT RESPONDANTS..

Last edited by Hopelessandlost; 11/03/08 01:52 AM.
Me: 24
Spouse: 36
Child(Prev. Relationship): 4
Married:25 August 2007
Re: I can't seem to move on...
Hopelessandlost #2151872 11/01/08 10:10 PM
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he convinced me to get him a car for $60,000
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You're 24 years old?


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Re: I can't seem to move on...
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Yes. With this marriage I am feeling a bit older. I have so much going for me. I bought a BMW and then he wanted a car so I got him his 2008 Audi S5. I feel used but, I know that he loves me but I have too much anger and resentment built up inside. I sometimes feel hate. I am losing it.

Me: 24
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Child(Prev. Relationship): 4
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Re: I can't seem to move on...
Hopelessandlost #2151895 11/01/08 11:13 PM
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Re: I can't seem to move on...
Hopelessandlost #2152196 11/02/08 07:16 PM
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I just cannnot help but say some very tough things to you.



And let's see....you say you don't "believe" in divorce, but apparently you believe in:

premarital sex
overindulgence in alcohol
extramarital sex

Your choices of which sins to commit and which not to commit are pretty self-indulgent, aren't they?

Spare me your excuses for not getting a divorce. They are crappola.


IF your story is true, it's a doozy.


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Our new marriage began that day. Not easily, but it did happen.
Re: I can't seem to move on...
schoolbus #2152205 11/02/08 07:35 PM
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FYI, this is not a site for attacking nor did I post my story to be attacked but for some guidance. And you say that I believe in premarital sex, NO. Am I human and can I make a mistake, YES. Overindulgence in alcohol, NO, I know I mentioned that I do not even drink. Was it silly of me to let someone pressure me into it, YES. Extramarital SEX, I do not believe in but I am not perfect and am entitled to screw up once in a while. I never professed perfection.


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I just cannnot help but say some very tough things to you.



And let's see....you say you don't "believe" in divorce, but apparently you believe in:

premarital sex
overindulgence in alcohol
extramarital sex

Your choices of which sins to commit and which not to commit are pretty self-indulgent, aren't they?

Spare me your excuses for not getting a divorce. They are crappola.


IF your story is true, it's a doozy.


Schoolbus

Last edited by Fireproof; 11/02/08 08:03 PM. Reason: personal attack
Me: 24
Spouse: 36
Child(Prev. Relationship): 4
Married:25 August 2007

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