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3 cheers for an awesome recovery in progress!


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Pep,
I closed my office door and cried with the deepest of pains when I sat back and thought about a fan club on an infidelity board. They became mixed with tears of joy as I counted my many blessings.


The agonies of my adultery lead my wife to MB nearly 19 months ago.

It was by God’s grace that ALL of you were here supporting her through some of the most grueling and agonizing moments of her adult life.

The realization of all the agonies caused by my adultery lead me here to MB a year ago, willing to do whatever it would take to help my wife and restore our marriage.

Today I sit in awe, amazed with the undeserved love and grace of my God, my wife and children. I’m indebted to all the people here who tirelessly give their time, prayers and support.

My hat is off to ALL of you that are part of this MB family.






Recovery began 10/07;

Meeting my wife's EN's is my "thank you" that refuses to be silenced.
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We are not defined by the mistakes we make - it's the lessons we learned from our mistakes that count ..... in the end tally.

You are the prodigal son.

God Bless you

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for this thy brother was dead, and is alive again; and was lost, and is found.

– (Luke 15:32

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Originally Posted by tst
Pep,
I closed my office door and cried with the deepest of pains when I sat back and thought about a fan club on an infidelity board. They became mixed with tears of joy as I counted my many blessings.


The agonies of my adultery lead my wife to MB nearly 19 months ago.

It was by God’s grace that ALL of you were here supporting her through some of the most grueling and agonizing moments of her adult life.

The realization of all the agonies caused by my adultery lead me here to MB a year ago, willing to do whatever it would take to help my wife and restore our marriage.

Today I sit in awe, amazed with the undeserved love and grace of my God, my wife and children. I’m indebted to all the people here who tirelessly give their time, prayers and support.

My hat is off to ALL of you that are part of this MB family.

You've done well my friend. As you know, I was one of the ones telling SMB to send your happy hiney packing. Thankfully, the swift kick in your pants worked!

You are blessed...and have once again become a blessing to those that count on you.


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We are not defined by the mistakes we make - it's the lessons we learned from our mistakes that count ..... in the end tally.

You are the prodigal son.

God Bless you
Beautifully said and a big AMEN from me!


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I'm a fan from afar......

When I first came here in Dec. 08, SMB's threads were the very first ones I read from beginning to end. It was what helped give me hope. Even though you all were only beginning the road to recovery at that time, it showed me that getting to that point was possible.......

and since then, TST has given some of the best advice around, from telling WS who come here how it is, to telling BS to reach for more. All from one who BTDT and did it all...... wink

It always brings tears to my eyes when waywards finally "get it" and work hard to reform....who can't help but be a fan of that...

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