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My husband's primary love language is Words of Affirmation.  Five Love Languages - Gary Chapman - 30 second test We are very new to "in recovery" and I would love some suggestions to fill his love bank. It seems I have been doing a really poor job over the years and he went elsewhere to fill it! Any suggestions for verbal, letters, poems, text messages etc would be greatly appreciated. My journey to recovery Thank you 
BS 32 (1st marriage), WH 38 (2nd marriage), DD 3, DS 1
Married Aug 2002, EA/PA 2005, NC mid 2005
EA Jun 2008, Plan A, 1 Aug 2008, WH moved out 14 Sep 08, D-Day 14 Sep 08, Moved home 2 Nov 08, moved out 30 Nov 08
Plan B, 2 Dec 08, broken 5, 11, 15 & 17 Dec 08
Current Status: Contact for visitation, children and finances.
Embarking on a new plan to Let go and Let God and to not settle for less than I deserve!
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2Much, what are his top EN's? Have y'all taken the EN questionaraire? IMO, the MB program is the best thing out there and it really does work. It is also the most comprehensive.
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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Thanks ML. I would love him to take the EN's but he is only home for the kids and not for M recovery at this stage. The 30 second quiz was the only quick gauge I could go for safely. I have had the EN's questionnare printed and in my briefcase for 3 months and there never seems to be a right time. My thread if you're interested is Advice please for recovery - my husband just moved home
BS 32 (1st marriage), WH 38 (2nd marriage), DD 3, DS 1
Married Aug 2002, EA/PA 2005, NC mid 2005
EA Jun 2008, Plan A, 1 Aug 2008, WH moved out 14 Sep 08, D-Day 14 Sep 08, Moved home 2 Nov 08, moved out 30 Nov 08
Plan B, 2 Dec 08, broken 5, 11, 15 & 17 Dec 08
Current Status: Contact for visitation, children and finances.
Embarking on a new plan to Let go and Let God and to not settle for less than I deserve!
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