I believe I have questioned out the A and why it happens. I don't have any more questions right now except for repeated ones(which I done also).

Right now I just want to talk about the whole honest thing, how I would want a marriage to be, ect.. but I find that I am always talking and he just listening. He just doesn't seem to have much input right now. Except the usually we both now what we need to do. If I tell him I am in contact with an ex now and then, he is ok with it and says if I say it is just friends then that is ok. I guess because if I was to do anything he would file a D. While I would be more uncomfortable with it.

I wonder if to just gave him sometime before all this talking. Soometimes it seems like, I do what is right(tell him everything going on in my life), while he is more quiet. I volunteer information about stuff. He rarely does at times. He does try to talk more about work now, with names and stuff too. But sometimes he still seems a little withdrawn. He has said as time goes by things would be easier. I guess for me if I am in R, I am opening everything even if I don't feel like it. But he is not completely like that. I know he does stuff he might not care for doing. But for me it still isn't enough. I guess I should just gave it sometime. I just want things fix quick and for him to just start sharing more volunteery stuff.