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Could some of you jump over to Divorcing/Divorced forum and have a chat with Novembergirl? She seems a bit resistant to input from BSs because we don't seem to understand the WW POV.

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I read some her posts today and it sent me on a real tailspin! Her story sounds so much like the OW in my situation and it really hurt to read all the rationalizations around getting together with a married father. But then again, my WH has read some of MB lately and it did nothing to make an impression. Whether that's fog or narcissim, I don't know, but I could not read some of the hurt people have been through on here and not be impacted.
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Me:BS40
WXH:42
DD15; DS13; DD6
D-day:6/30/08 & 10/25/08
WH moved out 9/15/08
D: 1/15/10

"So take that look out of here, it doesn't fit you, because it's happened, doesn't mean you've been discarded." -- Big Country from "In a Big Country."
"Keep calm and carry on." -- Winston Churchill
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Maybe OMW will beat some sense into her empty little head.


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Oh my,such a chip on shoulder to begin and such a big change by the end of posts thus far. Impressive, good work everyone who posted over there. I'm off to do that now.


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