..I exposed out of a sense of vengence. It was over as soon as I found out as my XW already made plans to move out and was clear that she would not admit the affairs or do any work to repair the marriage. I have some recriminations about having done so. Not to her family, as they needed to know the truth and I needed support. But, I blabbed a fair amount for a while. I think I was pretty traumatized and not my usual contained self.